Name: Frank C. Anselmo Life Dates: 12/26/1952 - 4/13/2012 City Of Birth: Oceanside, CA History Survived by his wife, Nancy J. (Eisenberg) Anselmo; children, Philip (Sonia) Anselmo, Mariesa Anselmo and Jessica (Angel Diaz) Anselmo; 6 grandchildren, David, Ava, Alayla, Isabella, Amelia Luis; parents, Thomas Josephine Anselmo; brother sisters, Salvatore (Boubane) Anselmo, Jody (Joe) Brennan Tammy (Tom) Toscano; brothers sisters in-law, Bob (Mel) Eisenberg, Linda (John) Herman, Mary (Ken) Zanni, Kevin (Sue) Eisenberg John (Lori) Eisenberg; several nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts uncles. Donations In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the charity of your choice in Frank's memory. Services Frank's visitation will be Tuesday 2-4 7-9 PM at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (between Rte 390 Long Pond Rd.) His Memorial Service will be celebrated Wednesday 10 AM at the funeral home. Additional Information Frank taught instrumental music at Holy Cross, St. Pius X, Christ the King, St. Lawrence and Aquinas Institute. He was also director of the Select Concert Band, Marching/Pep Band, Concert Band, Drum Line, Jazz Band, and most recently he was the Musical Director for Damn Yankees at Aquinas. He also taught hundreds of students in private lessons. Many may remember Frank as owner and proprietor of Anselmo's Musical Instruments, which he lovingly managed for nearly two decades. Frank also played percussion in many local bands, and he conducted and directed big band performances at all kinds of venues. He loved to travel with lifelong friends and family on the "Annual" trips to 1,000 Islands on Memorial Day weekends -- a tradition for more than 40 years -- and he always looked forward to spending time with his family on their holiday vacations in Virginia. Some of Frank's favorite hobbies were fishing, playing baseball, gardening and grilling. He was born a Mets fan, and cheered for the Bills during his life in Rochester. His wife, children and grandchildren were his greatest source of enjoyment. It's not possible to describe Frank in a few short lines, but everyone who knew him would say that he was loving, patient, creative and selfless. He also had a wonderful sense of humor. Frank was an amazing man and will truly be missed by all.