Distaffen, Joseph D. Greece: March 27, 2016 . He is survived by his wife: Emily (Reed) Distaffen; his parents, Gary Sr. & Wendy Distaffen; sisters, Jennifer Distaffen & Melissa (Mike) Distaffen; brothers, Gary (Rachel) Distaffen Jr., Andrew Distaffen and Jason (Andrea) Distaffen; mother & father-in-law, Sandi & Keith Barrett; father & mother-in-law, Todd & Angie Walker; brothers-in-law & sisters-in-law, Joe Reed, Melissa Walker, Madison O'Donnell, Garrett Walker & Ian Walker; grandmothers, Virginia Distaffen & Marielies Renke; niece, Cassandra; nephew, Gage; many dear cousins & friends. To light a candle of remembrance, visit: . Joe's memorial service will be celebrated 10:00 am on Saturday at the Lutheran Church of Our Savior, 2415 Chili Ave, Rochester NY 14624. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Humane Society at Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Road, Fairport, NY 14450 in Joe's memory.