Greece: July 25, 2026. Sandy was predeceased by her grandson, Colin Patton; sister, Darlene Elliott. She is survived by her husband, Stew Patton; sons, Sean (Donna) Patton & Scott (Jean Anne) Patton; grandchildren, Parker, Riley, Cole, Reese, Chase, & Kendall Patton; sisters, Donna Eggleston & Cheryl (Jack) Zelanz; several nieces, nephews, cousins, & dear friends.

Sandy’s life story will be shared during her visitation Wednesday, July 29th, 3-7 PM at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane, (between 390 & Long Pond Rd.). Her funeral service will be celebrated Thursday, 10 AM at the funeral home. Immediately following, she will be laid to rest in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Golisano Children’s Hospital, 300 E. River Rd., PO Box 23029, Rochester, NY 14692-3029 in her memory.

A Life Well Lived: Sandra “Sandy” Patton

On August 25, 1944, a little girl named Sandra was born in Rochester, New York, beginning a life that would be defined not by grand gestures or public acclaim, but by the quiet, steadfast love she poured into her family every single day. Sandy Patton passed away peacefully on July 25, 2026, leaving behind a legacy of devotion, kindness, and unwavering commitment to the people she loved most.

Sandy’s life was shaped early by the remarkable example of her mother, Alice, who courageously raised four daughters as a single mother while working at Eastman Kodak. Alongside her sisters – Donna, Cheryl, and Darlene – Sandy learned the values of resilience, hard work, and the importance of family. Those lessons would become the foundation upon which she built her own life.

After graduating from Franklin High School, Sandy met the love of her life, Stewart. They married in 1964 and embarked on a partnership that would span more than six decades. Together they created a warm, loving home where family always came first. They welcomed their first son, Sean, in 1966, followed by Scott in 1968. In 1998, Sandy embraced one of her favorite roles – grandmother – when their first grandchild was born. Her family continued to grow, and with it, so did her joy.

To Sandy, being a mother meant showing up – every practice, every game, every mile traveled. She devoted countless hours to making sure Sean made it to his travel hockey games and tournaments, never hesitating to sacrifice her own time for the happiness and opportunities of her children. She understood that love is often expressed through the ordinary moments: early mornings, long drives, packed lunches, and cheering from the stands.

Sandy and Stewart built a lifetime of cherished memories together through family vacations to Cape May, Vermont, and Saratoga Springs. These trips became treasured traditions, filled with laughter, relaxation, and the simple joy of being together.

For 32 years, Sandy was a familiar and friendly face at JoAnn Fabrics in Greece, New York. She took pride in her work and formed lasting relationships with customers and coworkers alike. Her dependable nature, warm smile, and genuine kindness made a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know her.

Outside of work, Sandy found happiness in life’s simple pleasures. She loved attending Rochester Red Wings baseball games, faithfully cheering on the Buffalo Bills, and especially admired quarterback Josh Allen. She rarely missed an opportunity to watch her grandchildren compete in their sporting events, taking immense pride in every accomplishment, big or small. At home, she enjoyed challenging herself with crossword puzzles and could often be found happily watching The Lawrence Welk Show, a program that never failed to bring her comfort and nostalgia.

Friendship was another gift Sandy cherished. She and Stewart shared decades of treasured memories with their dear friends Floyd and Barbara Grimes, and Jim and Sheila Fitzmorris. These lifelong friendships were filled with laughter, loyalty, and countless moments that enriched their lives.

Above all else, Sandy valued her family. They were her greatest accomplishment, her greatest joy, and the center of her world. She demonstrated that love is found not only in words but in consistent acts of care, sacrifice, encouragement, and presence. Whether she was supporting her children, celebrating her grandchildren, enjoying an afternoon with Stewart, or simply gathering everyone around the table, Sandy made those she loved feel safe, supported, and deeply cherished.

Her life reminds us that the greatest legacies are built through everyday acts of love. Sandy leaves behind countless memories, enduring friendships, and a family strengthened by the example she set. She was an incredible wife, a devoted mother, a proud grandmother, and a loyal friend whose kindness and quiet strength will continue to inspire all who knew her.

Though her chair may now sit empty, her love remains woven into the hearts of her family. It will be found in every Bills game watched together, every family vacation remembered, every grandchild’s accomplishment celebrated, every crossword puzzle completed, and every story shared around the dinner table. Her life was a beautiful testament to faithfulness, family, and unconditional love – a legacy that will live on for generations.