Distaffen, Shirley M. Greece: April 12, 2014. Predeceased by her husband, Rocco Sr. She is survived by her children, Cindianne Distaffen, Rocco (Deborah) Distaffen, Jr., Kimberly (Mario) DiLuigi; grandchildren, Jeffery (Christine) Limuti, Sandra Kenneth) DeAltonaga, BriAnna DiLuigi, Joseph Tornatore, Dominique DiLuigi, Mario DiLuigi II; great-grandchildren, Noah Isla Limuti; many nieces nephews, cousins and her loving sisters-in-law brothers-in-law; loyal loving friends. With Shirley's passing, she and her loving Rocky will meet again. They will continue their travels throughout eternity with love they shared in their hearts once again. Visitation is Monday from 3-7 PM at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (between 390 Long Pond Rd.) Shirley's funeral mass will be celebrated Tuesday at 10 AM at St. Jude's Church, 4100 Lyell Rd, Rochester. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to School of the Holy Childhood, 100 Groton Pkwy, Rochester, NY 14623 in Shirley's memory.