zain j koroly Relation to Deceased: Brother in law RIP Uncle Frank. Love Uncle Zain The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Tina Stevens So sad to hear of Frank’s passing. My son, Matt, played for him for four years in select band and just loved him. Thank you for those memories. The music continues in the clouds …. prayers and condolences to his family.
Tina Marie & daughter Alyssa Corregedor Relation to Deceased: Friend through daughters Flute lessons for 6yrs Dearest Anselmo Family, Mr. Anselmo/Frank as we knew him, will always be in our hearts. The news came sudden to my daughter and I. I must say however that we were delighted to have had the oportunity to know and grow with Frank for the past 6 yrs. He was a remarkable person inside and out. It saddens us to miss his smile but the memories of his character & friendship are beyond measure. His spirit will live on as we remember him. May you also find strength in his spirit and continue his wonderful way of life as he always shared his smile. Peace~ Tina Marie & daughter Alyssa Corregedor
Teri Waterhouse Relation to Deceased: Friend Frank was a fighter from the day I met him. He was a great man that would never give up on anything or anyone he loved. I saw him at wegmans about 2 yrs ago and he hugged me and told me ..”YA know Teri..you will make it”…that comment meant more than he will ever know. I love ya Frank..I mean Mr. Anselmo..RIP until we meet again!…xo The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sue Talsania Relation to Deceased: Student’s parent Frank/Mr. A as we all referred to him, entered our lives 9 years ago when my oldest son enrolled in his Music for Little People class. He went on to have frank as a piano teacher through Gates-Chili continuing Ed classes and learned to play the drums with him at St. Pius X. My younger son also went down this same road with Frank. Even though my boys stopped attending St. Pius, they still kept coming back to Frank for summer lessons. This fall my older son was applying to McQuaid-Jesuit for 7th grade and needed a letter of reference. He asked Mr. A to write it for him, as Mr. A had known him the longest of any of the teachers he had ever had. We will forever be grateful to Frank for teaching our boys over the years and helping them to learn to enjoy musical instruments. Our thought and prayers go out to his family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Stephanie Brown Mr. A, I still have my very first recorder. Thanks so much for everything you taught me and all the encouragement you gave me, from daycare to elementary school to middle school and even after that. You were a great teacher and a great friend. You will be sorely missed, and well remembered.
Sonia Mineo-Anselmo Relation to Deceased: Daughter-in-law I am honored to have had Frank welcome me into the family and love me like one of his daughters. He was the dad that I never had. I know that he is at peace and he is watching over all of us. I love and miss you, Frank. You will always be in my thoughts.
Salvatore Anselmo Relation to Deceased: Godson/nephew I miss you uncle Frank. You were more of a father to me than a godfather. You lived a great life. I never met someone who was more family oriented than you. You came to see me and for that I’ll be forever grateful. You have a wonderful wife and 3 great kids. You are a lucky man. Now you are in heaven with our other family members. I will miss you terribly. I still get choked up just thinking about you. I miss you uncle Frank. You were my number one supporter through my insane military career. I will make sure your legend lives on. Love your Salvatorey
Robert A Agopian Relation to Deceased: Acquaintance Frank was the piano music to my son Pat when he was at 8 years of age. Frank was kind, and i admired his patience and tolerance with the number of kids that he handled. May God rest his soul and grant him eternal peace. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Nichole Zanni Relation to Deceased: Niece The music in heaven became even sweeter when you arrived. Claire and I miss you so much and will always love you!
nancy and john wilson Relation to Deceased: friend To the Anselmo family, Our prayers are with you at this heartbreaking time. Frank was a tremendous supporter of our son John, who was blessed to be a student in his choir, and always gave our son many opportunities to demonstrate our son’s piano abilities, encouraging him to challenge himself in the field of music.. He also taught my First Grade students and was a gentle, kind, and sweet man who will be sadly missed. Frank was a man who clearly loved making beautiful music, and shared this love with everyone he met. Thank you Frank for your influence in our son’s life and for all those who you have touched. Nancy and John Wilson and family As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Mickey Ames Relation to Deceased: Fellow Musician It is always difficult so say goodbye…we rarely know what to say. My memories of Frank are fond. I did teach some guitar lessons on Ridge Road at Anselmo’s and all of my interactions with Frank are remembered as positive and upbeat. He will be missed by many I’m sure, most of all his family. Heaven has been enriched with your passing Frank, just as our lives were here…
Melanie Eisenberg Relation to Deceased: Loving sister-in-law Frankie – Now you can convince Mother that you ARE her favorite son-in-law – without John and Kenny interfering with your endeavors. I picture you, up there, giving music lessons to the angels. I love you, Frankie, and miss you terribly already. Mel The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mary Martell Relation to Deceased: friend, coworker Thank you Frank for bringing the joy of Music to all 3 of my boys. We had many years of Hot Cross Buns at our house played on an assortment of instruments. I know you are leading the angels in song today! You will be missed so much by all of us at Holy Cross! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mark & Anita Brown Relation to Deceased: Parents of former student Thank you Mr. A for the music. For teaching violin to a 4 year-old, then flute to a teen. For Hot Cross Buns and Jazz and scared music. For all those wonderful memories of past Lilac Festivals.
Lori & Ray Kerhaert Relation to Deceased: friends of John & Lori Eisenberg Prayers are with all of the family at this time of sorrow. The Symphony of Support that we attended showed how all can come together with love and support of someone that was a wonderful person. With deepest sympathy to all. The Kerhaert Family.
Lisa Wright Barnes Relation to Deceased: Friend Frank gave me my first teaching job at his store in Greece in the early 80’s. Those days were so memorable for me (I was the only female), for through Frank I met and performed with so many wonderful musicians. His kindness, humor, and easy going attitude are what I think of first when I think of him. I remember that we had a faculty band, which was a blast. It was a great era for live music. I will miss Frank and am deeply saddened by his passing.
Kristin Still Relation to Deceased: Teacher at MOS and Holy Cross Frank has done much to inspire all the young learners to love music. His thoughtful, caring ways had a beautiful effect on all that he touched.We will be deeply missed. Kristin Still Kdg. Teacher at Mother of Sorrows & Holy Cross School The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Karen Rote Relation to Deceased: Friend I sweet man that I remember as a kind person. Always easy-going and friendly. Kind and respectful. God bless Frankie and your family you have left behind. God has his reasons and you are in much better hands. Let you live forever in all of us! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Judy S Guarino Relation to Deceased: friend and parent of his students Michael and Geof I have many fond memories of Mr. Anselmo as a wonderful part of my children’s education in the catholic school music program. They were in the select orchestra for 6 years. Frank was always inspiring and loved all of his students. he encouraged and taught each student with all his heart. My two boys just loved him, and we will miss him greatly. He always had a warm smile. He loved his family. What a humble, yet great man to be missed by many……. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
John Viavattine Relation to Deceased: Neighbor Nancy I will mis Frank and I talking about how good or bad a year it was for the garden and giving him a wave on a cool fall day as we each tened a fire in the backyard. Mary Ann and I send our deepest sympathy to you and the children and I know his grand kids are going to miss him. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Joan Michaelson(Gammell) My thoughts and prayers are with you Nancy and your family and the entire Anselmo family with the loss of Frank. I have so many fond memeries of Frank growing up. he will be sadly missed by all who knew him and loved him. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Jim Drew Relation to Deceased: Friend and fellow musician As a father of one of Frank’s students and as a fellow musician I was saddened to hear about Frank’s passing. We’d had some great times in the past and when my son was beating on everything in the house at age four I brought him to Frank. It was perfect as Frank took my son under his tutilege and worked within a four year olds attention and found some amazing abilities. To this day I thank Frank for his passion for music, the times we shared it, and for helping me pass it on to my son in a fun and professional way. Will miss you greatly my friend!
jessica l anselmo Relation to Deceased: daughter What can I say , I had the best father … Loving , funny a great teacher and the best friend .. one of my favorite memories of you and I is of course when I used to go to work with you 🙂 you were always my hero and that will never change . Till I see you again <3 Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father's will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus' land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Jesmer Family Frank was an inspirational music teacher to our sons. We all have fond memories of Frank conducting the concert band on the stage at Holy Cross and at Highland Park. Frank’s passion and drive for music will be greatly missed. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Horst and Helmi Koch-Schroeder Relation to Deceased: Extendet Family-Mineo To Nancy and Family, Prayers are with you at this time of Sorrow. We will keep Frank in our Memories as an excellent Father in Law to Sonia. Love to all Horst and Helmi Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Helen Klimeck-Jones Relation to Deceased: Friend Thank you for instilling a love of music into our children. Nick started Music for Little People with you at the age of 3 and continued lessons for years. Joey started with you at 3 also, following in his big brother’s footsteps, and both continue to play piano to this day (they are almost 17 and 14). Your influence on them will always be remembered and cherished.
Helen Klimeck-Jones Relation to Deceased: Friend Dear Frank, The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Hancock Jeff Relation to Deceased: Former Coworker I am very saddened to hear of Frank’s death. We taught together for 6 years. He was a good friend, excellent teacher, and will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. He was the undisputed BEST MUSIC TEACHER I have ever worked with. His drum therapy program did wonders for the kids we taught. Frank was kind, tolerant, and most of all sincere in his passion for each kid. A few years ago I sent my own son to him for lessons during summer recreation at Rush-Henrietta. Frank, you will be missed. I am fortunate to have been your friend.
Hancock Jeff Relation to Deceased: Former Coworker I am very saddened to hear of Frank’s death. We taught together for 6 years. He was a good friend, excellent teacher, and will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. He was the undisputed BEST MUSIC TEACHER I have ever worked with. His drum therapy program did wonders for the kids we taught.
frances c koroly Relation to Deceased: Franks sister Jody was married to my son Zain Franks as I knew him was a soft gentle and loving man who adored children and the music he taught to so many.He will be so missed by his family and friends, but everyone he touched in his short life is now richer for having known him
Ellen Hancock Relation to Deceased: Mother of a past music student Frank brought violin music into my son’s life 9 years ago at Our Mother of Sorrows school. We have often thought of the wonderful experiences Cody had during lessons and Select Orchestra. We will never forget all the time, effort and love Frank put into his students’ musical lives. You are all in our prayers. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Diane White Bonacci I am so fortunate that my daughter Sophia had a chance to take lessons with Frank. She really liked him very much. We are so sorry for the loss of such a great person and teacher. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Debbie (Bieck) Bausch Nancy, when I think of Frank I am reminded of our drummer in the “Younger Generation” so many years ago. My prayers are with you and your family. I went through this last year, know that you are loved and Frank will always be with you in your heart.
Dan Kohut Relation to Deceased: friend Still remember fondly our battles on the tennis court and playing shortstop on your softball team. 20 + years have went by since I spoke to you, but I’ll always value your friendship, and your jovial wit. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Christine Pantaleo-Cazeneuve Relation to Deceased: Family Friend I was shocked and saddened to hear the news today. Time goes by way too fast and we should value each and every day of our lives. The memories I have our two families – the Anselmos and the Pantaleos – the immigrants to Rochester from Brooklyn – wow are countless! I will cherish them all. My thoughts and prayers go to your families and remember we will all be together again one day! My love to Uncle Tom and Aunt Jo!
Christine Coco Mr. Anselmo, thank you for always believing in me and supporting me. I was blessed to have you as an instrumental teacher for four years at Our Mother of Sorrows. Thank you for sharing your love of music and teaching. I hope to carry your enthusiasm for teaching with me as I soon become a high school teacher. I won’t forget you. May you rest in God’s hand. Praying for your family.
chas belfield Mr. A, you were not only the best music teacher i ever had, you were the best teacher period. Thanks for all the fun times in lessons, on tour, and bearing with me while i chased my crazy guitarist dreams. It’s because of you that they came true.
Caitlin and Denice Welch Relation to Deceased: Violin student at Christ the King School Caitlin and I wanted to express our sincere sympathy to your entire family. Caitlin began music lessons with Mr. Anselmo in Kindergarten. She quickly realized that she loved playing violin and she has loved her lessons with Mr. A, for the last four years. Mr. Anselmo has helped her to realize her abilities as a musician but more than that, he has taught her that hard work and perseverance are skills that apply not only to music, but to anything worth while. We are so happy that our lives crossed Frank’s path. He was truly a devoted teacher who will be greatly missed. His legacy lives on in our children. Caitlin and Denice Welch The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Brenna Eisenberg Uncle Frank , I am so proud to say you were my god father . I always looked forward to seeing you. I’m so happy I was able to learn piano from you when I was little , I will definitely begin to Learn again in your memory . I love you so much , love your god daughter , Brenna <3
Barbara Champlin Relation to Deceased: ‘Amber’s Mother’ (All Saints Select Band) Frank Anselmo = Best music teacher EVER! Heaven’s band has thebest of the best! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Ann Chinelly Relation to Deceased: we coached a stepteam together at All Saints Frank was one in a million he loved kids and his family. He inspired us all to dig deeper and be better. He was a man of honor who led by example. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Andy and Debbie Wolagiewicz Relation to Deceased: friend Thank you Frank for some wonderful times you shared with us, they have created unforgettable memories. You will live in hearts and thoughts. Rest in peace our dear friend. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Andrianna Gruttadauria Relation to Deceased: Student I didn’t see this coming when I heard the news I burst into tears. I’ll miss you Mr. A your my favorite music teacher. As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Amber L Champlin Relation to Deceased: Student Mr. A was the BEST teacher that I have ever had. I truly feel that he made me into an amazing musician and helped me to gain confidence in myself through music. Mr A. taught me so many lessons that I will never ever forget. I remember many laughs together and smiles. If I had a bad day, I could count on Mr. A to be there for me. He was a bright light of sunshine on a cloudy day. This man was such a loving person and a wonderful teacher. He loved what he did and brought out the best in others. Mr. A will always have a special place in my heart. He will be missed, but never forgotten. God Bless, always. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Aileen Bowers Thank You, Frank for giving my children the gift of music in their lives! You gave them the confidence to be themselves and courage to try new things. And because of your example, throughout their lives they will make you proud and “pay it forward”! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
I learned how to play guitar at Frank’s music store! Kevin defranc, was my teacher. Rest in peace Frank! Loved sharing the 80s with you guy’s!
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zain j koroly Relation to Deceased: Brother in law RIP Uncle Frank. Love Uncle Zain The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Tina Stevens So sad to hear of Frank’s passing. My son, Matt, played for him for four years in select band and just loved him. Thank you for those memories. The music continues in the clouds …. prayers and condolences to his family.
Tina Marie & daughter Alyssa Corregedor Relation to Deceased: Friend through daughters Flute lessons for 6yrs Dearest Anselmo Family, Mr. Anselmo/Frank as we knew him, will always be in our hearts. The news came sudden to my daughter and I. I must say however that we were delighted to have had the oportunity to know and grow with Frank for the past 6 yrs. He was a remarkable person inside and out. It saddens us to miss his smile but the memories of his character & friendship are beyond measure. His spirit will live on as we remember him. May you also find strength in his spirit and continue his wonderful way of life as he always shared his smile. Peace~ Tina Marie & daughter Alyssa Corregedor
Teri Waterhouse Relation to Deceased: Friend Frank was a fighter from the day I met him. He was a great man that would never give up on anything or anyone he loved. I saw him at wegmans about 2 yrs ago and he hugged me and told me ..”YA know Teri..you will make it”…that comment meant more than he will ever know. I love ya Frank..I mean Mr. Anselmo..RIP until we meet again!…xo The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sue Talsania Relation to Deceased: Student’s parent Frank/Mr. A as we all referred to him, entered our lives 9 years ago when my oldest son enrolled in his Music for Little People class. He went on to have frank as a piano teacher through Gates-Chili continuing Ed classes and learned to play the drums with him at St. Pius X. My younger son also went down this same road with Frank. Even though my boys stopped attending St. Pius, they still kept coming back to Frank for summer lessons. This fall my older son was applying to McQuaid-Jesuit for 7th grade and needed a letter of reference. He asked Mr. A to write it for him, as Mr. A had known him the longest of any of the teachers he had ever had. We will forever be grateful to Frank for teaching our boys over the years and helping them to learn to enjoy musical instruments. Our thought and prayers go out to his family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Stephanie Brown Mr. A, I still have my very first recorder. Thanks so much for everything you taught me and all the encouragement you gave me, from daycare to elementary school to middle school and even after that. You were a great teacher and a great friend. You will be sorely missed, and well remembered.
Sonia Mineo-Anselmo Relation to Deceased: Daughter-in-law I am honored to have had Frank welcome me into the family and love me like one of his daughters. He was the dad that I never had. I know that he is at peace and he is watching over all of us. I love and miss you, Frank. You will always be in my thoughts.
Salvatore Anselmo Relation to Deceased: Godson/nephew I miss you uncle Frank. You were more of a father to me than a godfather. You lived a great life. I never met someone who was more family oriented than you. You came to see me and for that I’ll be forever grateful. You have a wonderful wife and 3 great kids. You are a lucky man. Now you are in heaven with our other family members. I will miss you terribly. I still get choked up just thinking about you. I miss you uncle Frank. You were my number one supporter through my insane military career. I will make sure your legend lives on. Love your Salvatorey
Robert A Agopian Relation to Deceased: Acquaintance Frank was the piano music to my son Pat when he was at 8 years of age. Frank was kind, and i admired his patience and tolerance with the number of kids that he handled. May God rest his soul and grant him eternal peace. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Nichole Zanni Relation to Deceased: Niece The music in heaven became even sweeter when you arrived. Claire and I miss you so much and will always love you!
nancy and john wilson Relation to Deceased: friend To the Anselmo family, Our prayers are with you at this heartbreaking time. Frank was a tremendous supporter of our son John, who was blessed to be a student in his choir, and always gave our son many opportunities to demonstrate our son’s piano abilities, encouraging him to challenge himself in the field of music.. He also taught my First Grade students and was a gentle, kind, and sweet man who will be sadly missed. Frank was a man who clearly loved making beautiful music, and shared this love with everyone he met. Thank you Frank for your influence in our son’s life and for all those who you have touched. Nancy and John Wilson and family As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Mickey Ames Relation to Deceased: Fellow Musician It is always difficult so say goodbye…we rarely know what to say. My memories of Frank are fond. I did teach some guitar lessons on Ridge Road at Anselmo’s and all of my interactions with Frank are remembered as positive and upbeat. He will be missed by many I’m sure, most of all his family. Heaven has been enriched with your passing Frank, just as our lives were here…
Melanie Eisenberg Relation to Deceased: Loving sister-in-law Frankie – Now you can convince Mother that you ARE her favorite son-in-law – without John and Kenny interfering with your endeavors. I picture you, up there, giving music lessons to the angels. I love you, Frankie, and miss you terribly already. Mel The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mary Martell Relation to Deceased: friend, coworker Thank you Frank for bringing the joy of Music to all 3 of my boys. We had many years of Hot Cross Buns at our house played on an assortment of instruments. I know you are leading the angels in song today! You will be missed so much by all of us at Holy Cross! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mark & Anita Brown Relation to Deceased: Parents of former student Thank you Mr. A for the music. For teaching violin to a 4 year-old, then flute to a teen. For Hot Cross Buns and Jazz and scared music. For all those wonderful memories of past Lilac Festivals.
Lori & Ray Kerhaert Relation to Deceased: friends of John & Lori Eisenberg Prayers are with all of the family at this time of sorrow. The Symphony of Support that we attended showed how all can come together with love and support of someone that was a wonderful person. With deepest sympathy to all. The Kerhaert Family.
Lisa Wright Barnes Relation to Deceased: Friend Frank gave me my first teaching job at his store in Greece in the early 80’s. Those days were so memorable for me (I was the only female), for through Frank I met and performed with so many wonderful musicians. His kindness, humor, and easy going attitude are what I think of first when I think of him. I remember that we had a faculty band, which was a blast. It was a great era for live music. I will miss Frank and am deeply saddened by his passing.
Kristin Still Relation to Deceased: Teacher at MOS and Holy Cross Frank has done much to inspire all the young learners to love music. His thoughtful, caring ways had a beautiful effect on all that he touched.We will be deeply missed. Kristin Still Kdg. Teacher at Mother of Sorrows & Holy Cross School The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Karen Rote Relation to Deceased: Friend I sweet man that I remember as a kind person. Always easy-going and friendly. Kind and respectful. God bless Frankie and your family you have left behind. God has his reasons and you are in much better hands. Let you live forever in all of us! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Judy S Guarino Relation to Deceased: friend and parent of his students Michael and Geof I have many fond memories of Mr. Anselmo as a wonderful part of my children’s education in the catholic school music program. They were in the select orchestra for 6 years. Frank was always inspiring and loved all of his students. he encouraged and taught each student with all his heart. My two boys just loved him, and we will miss him greatly. He always had a warm smile. He loved his family. What a humble, yet great man to be missed by many……. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
John Viavattine Relation to Deceased: Neighbor Nancy I will mis Frank and I talking about how good or bad a year it was for the garden and giving him a wave on a cool fall day as we each tened a fire in the backyard. Mary Ann and I send our deepest sympathy to you and the children and I know his grand kids are going to miss him. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Joan Michaelson(Gammell) My thoughts and prayers are with you Nancy and your family and the entire Anselmo family with the loss of Frank. I have so many fond memeries of Frank growing up. he will be sadly missed by all who knew him and loved him. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Jim Drew Relation to Deceased: Friend and fellow musician As a father of one of Frank’s students and as a fellow musician I was saddened to hear about Frank’s passing. We’d had some great times in the past and when my son was beating on everything in the house at age four I brought him to Frank. It was perfect as Frank took my son under his tutilege and worked within a four year olds attention and found some amazing abilities. To this day I thank Frank for his passion for music, the times we shared it, and for helping me pass it on to my son in a fun and professional way. Will miss you greatly my friend!
jessica l anselmo Relation to Deceased: daughter What can I say , I had the best father … Loving , funny a great teacher and the best friend .. one of my favorite memories of you and I is of course when I used to go to work with you 🙂 you were always my hero and that will never change . Till I see you again <3 Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father's will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus' land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Jesmer Family Frank was an inspirational music teacher to our sons. We all have fond memories of Frank conducting the concert band on the stage at Holy Cross and at Highland Park. Frank’s passion and drive for music will be greatly missed. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Horst and Helmi Koch-Schroeder Relation to Deceased: Extendet Family-Mineo To Nancy and Family, Prayers are with you at this time of Sorrow. We will keep Frank in our Memories as an excellent Father in Law to Sonia. Love to all Horst and Helmi Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Helen Klimeck-Jones Relation to Deceased: Friend Thank you for instilling a love of music into our children. Nick started Music for Little People with you at the age of 3 and continued lessons for years. Joey started with you at 3 also, following in his big brother’s footsteps, and both continue to play piano to this day (they are almost 17 and 14). Your influence on them will always be remembered and cherished.
Helen Klimeck-Jones Relation to Deceased: Friend Dear Frank, The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Hancock Jeff Relation to Deceased: Former Coworker I am very saddened to hear of Frank’s death. We taught together for 6 years. He was a good friend, excellent teacher, and will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. He was the undisputed BEST MUSIC TEACHER I have ever worked with. His drum therapy program did wonders for the kids we taught. Frank was kind, tolerant, and most of all sincere in his passion for each kid. A few years ago I sent my own son to him for lessons during summer recreation at Rush-Henrietta. Frank, you will be missed. I am fortunate to have been your friend.
Hancock Jeff Relation to Deceased: Former Coworker I am very saddened to hear of Frank’s death. We taught together for 6 years. He was a good friend, excellent teacher, and will be missed by everyone whose life he touched. He was the undisputed BEST MUSIC TEACHER I have ever worked with. His drum therapy program did wonders for the kids we taught.
frances c koroly Relation to Deceased: Franks sister Jody was married to my son Zain Franks as I knew him was a soft gentle and loving man who adored children and the music he taught to so many.He will be so missed by his family and friends, but everyone he touched in his short life is now richer for having known him
Ellen Hancock Relation to Deceased: Mother of a past music student Frank brought violin music into my son’s life 9 years ago at Our Mother of Sorrows school. We have often thought of the wonderful experiences Cody had during lessons and Select Orchestra. We will never forget all the time, effort and love Frank put into his students’ musical lives. You are all in our prayers. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Diane White Bonacci I am so fortunate that my daughter Sophia had a chance to take lessons with Frank. She really liked him very much. We are so sorry for the loss of such a great person and teacher. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Debbie (Bieck) Bausch Nancy, when I think of Frank I am reminded of our drummer in the “Younger Generation” so many years ago. My prayers are with you and your family. I went through this last year, know that you are loved and Frank will always be with you in your heart.
Dan Kohut Relation to Deceased: friend Still remember fondly our battles on the tennis court and playing shortstop on your softball team. 20 + years have went by since I spoke to you, but I’ll always value your friendship, and your jovial wit. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Christine Pantaleo-Cazeneuve Relation to Deceased: Family Friend I was shocked and saddened to hear the news today. Time goes by way too fast and we should value each and every day of our lives. The memories I have our two families – the Anselmos and the Pantaleos – the immigrants to Rochester from Brooklyn – wow are countless! I will cherish them all. My thoughts and prayers go to your families and remember we will all be together again one day! My love to Uncle Tom and Aunt Jo!
Christine Coco Mr. Anselmo, thank you for always believing in me and supporting me. I was blessed to have you as an instrumental teacher for four years at Our Mother of Sorrows. Thank you for sharing your love of music and teaching. I hope to carry your enthusiasm for teaching with me as I soon become a high school teacher. I won’t forget you. May you rest in God’s hand. Praying for your family.
chas belfield Mr. A, you were not only the best music teacher i ever had, you were the best teacher period. Thanks for all the fun times in lessons, on tour, and bearing with me while i chased my crazy guitarist dreams. It’s because of you that they came true.
Caitlin and Denice Welch Relation to Deceased: Violin student at Christ the King School Caitlin and I wanted to express our sincere sympathy to your entire family. Caitlin began music lessons with Mr. Anselmo in Kindergarten. She quickly realized that she loved playing violin and she has loved her lessons with Mr. A, for the last four years. Mr. Anselmo has helped her to realize her abilities as a musician but more than that, he has taught her that hard work and perseverance are skills that apply not only to music, but to anything worth while. We are so happy that our lives crossed Frank’s path. He was truly a devoted teacher who will be greatly missed. His legacy lives on in our children. Caitlin and Denice Welch The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Brenna Eisenberg Uncle Frank , I am so proud to say you were my god father . I always looked forward to seeing you. I’m so happy I was able to learn piano from you when I was little , I will definitely begin to Learn again in your memory . I love you so much , love your god daughter , Brenna <3
Brad Talsania Relation to Deceased: student MR. A WAS THE BEST MUSIC TEACHER EVER! I’LL MISS YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH!
Barbara Champlin Relation to Deceased: ‘Amber’s Mother’ (All Saints Select Band) Frank Anselmo = Best music teacher EVER! Heaven’s band has thebest of the best! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Ann Chinelly Relation to Deceased: we coached a stepteam together at All Saints Frank was one in a million he loved kids and his family. He inspired us all to dig deeper and be better. He was a man of honor who led by example. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Andy and Debbie Wolagiewicz Relation to Deceased: friend Thank you Frank for some wonderful times you shared with us, they have created unforgettable memories. You will live in hearts and thoughts. Rest in peace our dear friend. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Andrianna Gruttadauria Relation to Deceased: Student I didn’t see this coming when I heard the news I burst into tears. I’ll miss you Mr. A your my favorite music teacher. As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Amber L Champlin Relation to Deceased: Student Mr. A was the BEST teacher that I have ever had. I truly feel that he made me into an amazing musician and helped me to gain confidence in myself through music. Mr A. taught me so many lessons that I will never ever forget. I remember many laughs together and smiles. If I had a bad day, I could count on Mr. A to be there for me. He was a bright light of sunshine on a cloudy day. This man was such a loving person and a wonderful teacher. He loved what he did and brought out the best in others. Mr. A will always have a special place in my heart. He will be missed, but never forgotten. God Bless, always. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Aileen Bowers Thank You, Frank for giving my children the gift of music in their lives! You gave them the confidence to be themselves and courage to try new things. And because of your example, throughout their lives they will make you proud and “pay it forward”! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips