Vinessa OConnor Relation to Deceased: coworker Margaret and family, Im so sorry to hear about Johns passing. He was a great man and will sorely missed. Our thoughts are with you and the kids… The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Vernon L West Relation to Deceased: Former coworker Margaret and family, I am so sorry for your loss! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Tracy L Eifert Relation to Deceased: co-worker John was one of a kind. He was such a gentleman, he would hold the door whenever a woman was near. His smile and laugh will never be forgotten. He had such a positive attitude in life. He will be dearly missed. Margaret and family I am so sorry for your loss! My prayers and thought are with you and your family. God Bless!! Tracy Eifert I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tony Mazurkiewicz Relation to Deceased: Co-worker The US Postal Service has suffered a great loss. John was one of our employees that made the Postal Service a better place to work. He remained postivie and diligent during diffuclut times and always gave his best effort. It was always a pleasure to talk to John and I felt like I learned something new each time we talked. I will miss him dearly as many of us will. We need to keep his memory alive to serve as an inspiration. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Tim Pratt Relation to Deceased: Friend I was very sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing. I came to know Jeff through his volunteering efforts with the scouts at Tinker Nature Park. Jeff was always a pleasure to work and I always looked forward to seeing him and the boys at our events. His caring for his community was genuine and the R-H Community lost a genuine role model. We will surely miss him here at Tinker Nature Park. Our sympathy and prayers are with his family. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Teri Hauser Margaret, so so sorry! He was a decent and good guy and willl surely be missed. I will be praying for all of you. God Bless I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tammie Wilson Relation to Deceased: FRIEND Margaret….I can’t find the words to express how deeply sad I am that you and your babies have to endure the loss of John. There isn’t a person we know that would ever be able to say a bad word about him. People like John are few and far between in this life. He was truly a gentle and kind man to everyone who knew him no matter where they crossed his path. My heart grieves for you and your family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sue Chichester Relation to Deceased: friend Margaret and family, The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Stephanie and Brian Ritchie Relation to Deceased: Friends and den parents We have known John since Keanu and our son Chase, were in the first grade together and the relationship continued on to Cub Scouts. We will always remember him as a kindhearted and giving person. Our hearts go out to the family and may you find comfort in your memories. He will be greatly missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
sherry clark Relation to Deceased: friend Madge and kids…I am so sorry for your loss. John was always smiling and always had something positive to say to anyone who was privledged to know him. He made a difference in the lives he touched. You are in the thoughts and prayers of so many. Please know that he will never be forgotten and always be remembered with love. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Sam Lamendola This is a nightmare, I have no words to say, may God give you the strength Margaret and someday we will all meet again. God Bless you John I am sure you are swinging on a STAR May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Rose Geande Relation to Deceased: friend Dear Margaret and family, John was one of the kindest, most beautiful, generous human beings I have ever known. I will miss him dearly and forever remember him with a big smile and warm feelings. My heart goes out to you all. Rose The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Richard and Donna McKain Relation to Deceased: High School Friend To the entire Fess Family hold tightly to all the wonderful memories you have of John. He was a wonderful guy in high school. Unfortunately we did not see much of him afterwards. However, after reading the description that provided a window to where he was in life, we can see that he grew into an even greater man who will be greatly missed. God bless you all, you have our deepest sympathies May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Rich Andressi Relation to Deceased: Friend/Co-Worker The video says it all about John. He loved his Family, Friends and Life, a true Gentleman at heart. May God give Margaret and the Fess Family the Strength at this most difficult time. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Raymond and Patricia Naassana We are so sad and sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Raymond and Patricia Naassana
Pete Andreasen Relation to Deceased: High School classmate I remember John as an awesome guy who cared for people no matter what group they were in. He brought people together 30 years ago, and Im sure he was that way his whole life. I was looking forward to seeing him at the reunion. We will miss you John. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Peggy Beckler Relation to Deceased: Friend John, You were always such a nice person. Very friendly & always made people feel comfortable in your presence. That memory will remain forever in the hearts of all who loved you. You were a wonderful role model for your children & that gift will remain with them always. Rest in Peace. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Maureen Baxter Relation to Deceased: co-worker Margaret, My prayers go out to you and your family. John was a wonderful, kind, and thoughtful individual who will be missed by everyone who’s life he touched. Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Maria Mannix Relation to Deceased: Friend and co-worker John was one of the kindest person I knew and if you looked up the word gentlemen you would surely see his face. We work across the hall from John and there are only women in our office. Every day when I come to work our tubs of mail would be waiting for us because John was always kind enough to bring them up. He never had a bad word to say about anyone and there isn’t a bad word to be said about him. He will be truly missed by so many people. Margaret my heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time. Sincerely Maria Mannix The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Margaret M Matteo Relation to Deceased: Friend I cannot express my sympathy in words. He was one of the best….We will all miss his smiling face and the positive attitude he brought to the work place. Just know Margaret, that we are all thinking of you at this most difficult time. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Lisa Plinzke Relation to Deceased: Friend John and I were friends back in the 80’s and then I moved away and we lost touch. He was a very good friend to me and I think the last time I saw him was about 8 years ago maybe longer. I wish that I could have seen him once more. You don’t realize how precious life is until this happens. Miss you John even though it has been a few years. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Lee Ann (Marianetti) VanDenBerghe Relation to Deceased: class mate When I transferred to EV in first grade, my teacher moved me into a quad of desks with “the boys” because I talked too much. Little did she know, I was not the least bit shy around boys. She seated me with John, Mark Webster and Dan Priestley. They became some of my very first friends in my new school. No matter what group we belonged in during our school days, John remained very kind to me. I do recall running into him and Kim at Wegmans with their first child. He was so proud of his son. My heart goes out to ALL who knew and especially to those who loved John. I am certain he will be greatly missed.
Kim Le Relation to Deceased: Co-Worker My deepest sympathies to Margaret and family. John will be missed dearly. Keeping your family lifted in thoughts and prayers.
Kim Fess Today we will honor one of the best men I will ever know. We met as children We grew up together and learned together about life, loss, love, happiness, and heartbreak. We remained true friends and family throughout the years with a special bond which could not be broken. You are one person I knew I could always count on. You have a piece of my heart forever and always With Love, Kim
Karen and Mark Valle Relation to Deceased: Co-workers John was a kind man with a beautiful smile he will be deeply missed. Our prayers are with Margret and her family.
Karen and Mark Valle John was a kind man with beauitfy smile he will be deepy missed by all that knew him.Our prayers to Margret and her family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Joann Marianetti Relation to Deceased: friend Dear Patti & Tom Maier, & the Fess Family, We are very saddened and shocked to hear of John’s passing. Please know that you are in our prayers. With Our Deepest Sympathy, Joann & Bill The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Jill M. North Relation to Deceased: Dear Friend & Cub Scout Mom John was one of the nicest, most wonderful people I have ever met. Not only was he a teriffic leader, but he was so great with the kids. All the parents loved and respected him as well. he had the patience of a saint and a kind word for everyone he met. His family should be proud and hold their heads up high. I know we are all blessed and honored to have him touch our lives! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Janice Tripi Relation to Deceased: den parent My son has NEVER had a den leader like John Fess…he helped my son like a friend and father figure. He made my son feel valued and he had a passion for the chidren that I’ve never seen before in a den leader. As a friend, John was a good listener, kind, patient and had a fabulous sense of humor. I can’t say enough good things about John. I am so shocked and upset for everyone who knew him. My love and heart to John’s wife and kids and family…..friends and someday John Fess, we will see you again. J
Iris M. Bertolone Relation to Deceased: friend John’s zest for life touched us all and his positive attitued and his contagious smile will live in our memories for a long time. May G_d’s love be with John and his family. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Hope Donovan -Weaver Relation to Deceased: Friend I am so sad to hear of John’s death – he was a wonerful man and such a good friend to all .May he rest in peace .God Bless his family and his children . The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Frank Billiski One of the Best. I’m so sorry and saddened for your loss. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Elizabeth Pedone Relation to Deceased: Freind Deepest Sympathy to Margaret and her children and all their family…Keep Your fondest memories of John alive and he will be with you always The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Donna Bassage Madge and Kids, We are so sorry for your loss. I cant find the words to express what i would like to say so I will just say John was a warm loving person and all of us were lucky that he passed through our lives. If there is anything we can do to help let us know, remember you are not alone when the days get tough, he will be there guiding you through the tough stuff! With Love, The Bassage Family The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Diane Galeazzo Relation to Deceased: Friend Margaret and family – My deepest sympathy. Words cannot express the saddness in my heart. Please know you all are in my prayers. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
colleen m willis Relation to Deceased: friend/coworker Margaret and family, I am so sorry of your loss of John. He was such a wonderful man, and will be so missed by us all … The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Chris Schottmiller My family and I were blessed to have known John and what a great man he was. My deepest sympathies to your family and may God hold you in his hands. Tom now has another great person to be with. John, we will never forget you!
Chris Dychton Margaret and family…I am so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful person. He always took the time to speak with you in a caring and cheerful manner.He will be sorely missed by those who knew him.My thoughts and prayers to you all.
cheryl goggins Relation to Deceased: friend Madge there are no words to say how deeply sorry I am for you and the kids. Just know that you are loved sister by many. John will be greatly missed. Mr. Fess was one no one will forget. Know that many people have their hearts wrapped around you and the kids know. Love you sister The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Cathy Taylor-Schultz Margaret & family, I am so very sorry to learn of John’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I believe love lives on, and he will always be with you.
Carrie A Fess Relation to Deceased: cousin Much luv to Margret and kids & MY family. My heart goes out to all of you at this time of unexpected loss . John John you are truly missed . Rip lots of luv Carrie & George <3 The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Bonnie J Greene Relation to Deceased: co worker I am so saddened to hear about your loss. John was always so much fun to work with. So many laughs and always a smile! He will be fondly remembered in all the lives he touched! My prayers are with you all.
Bob Scherzi Relation to Deceased: Co-worker always a gentlemen…… The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Barbara & Pete VerWulst Relation to Deceased: Friend Margaret & Family, We can’t express how deeply sorry. John was the most generous man always smiling & postive attiude. Always find time to listen. We will miss him. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Annette Haun Hoelscher Dear Margaret and Family, On behalf of myself, Joe Haun, Robbie Haun and our families, we would like to send our DEEPEST condolences to you. You are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. With love.
Anne-Marie Sharkey Relation to Deceased: co-worker There is a saying that “Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart. That is how I would describe John. My prayers are with his family, friends, and co-workers. He will be greatly missed.
Ann Marie Booth Relation to Deceased: Co-Worker USPS Margaret and Family, I am so sorry to hear about John’s passing. I will never forget the dreaded “Ice Storm” and John taking Melva Buckner and I to the Ground Round for a few cocktails an nd wings. Always smiling and always a true friend. He will be missed! Love yah Johnnie Anne As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Amanda Ward Relation to Deceased: Niece Helen Keller once said, “What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Uncle John will be a part of me forever. I see him in Alex, Kyle and Keanu. I will miss him deeply, but I know he will always be with us. I’ll never forget you. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
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Vinessa OConnor Relation to Deceased: coworker Margaret and family, Im so sorry to hear about Johns passing. He was a great man and will sorely missed. Our thoughts are with you and the kids… The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Vernon L West Relation to Deceased: Former coworker Margaret and family, I am so sorry for your loss! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Tracy L Eifert Relation to Deceased: co-worker John was one of a kind. He was such a gentleman, he would hold the door whenever a woman was near. His smile and laugh will never be forgotten. He had such a positive attitude in life. He will be dearly missed. Margaret and family I am so sorry for your loss! My prayers and thought are with you and your family. God Bless!! Tracy Eifert I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tony Mazurkiewicz Relation to Deceased: Co-worker The US Postal Service has suffered a great loss. John was one of our employees that made the Postal Service a better place to work. He remained postivie and diligent during diffuclut times and always gave his best effort. It was always a pleasure to talk to John and I felt like I learned something new each time we talked. I will miss him dearly as many of us will. We need to keep his memory alive to serve as an inspiration. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.
Tim Pratt Relation to Deceased: Friend I was very sorry to hear of Jeff’s passing. I came to know Jeff through his volunteering efforts with the scouts at Tinker Nature Park. Jeff was always a pleasure to work and I always looked forward to seeing him and the boys at our events. His caring for his community was genuine and the R-H Community lost a genuine role model. We will surely miss him here at Tinker Nature Park. Our sympathy and prayers are with his family. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Teri Hauser Margaret, so so sorry! He was a decent and good guy and willl surely be missed. I will be praying for all of you. God Bless I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tammie Wilson Relation to Deceased: FRIEND Margaret….I can’t find the words to express how deeply sad I am that you and your babies have to endure the loss of John. There isn’t a person we know that would ever be able to say a bad word about him. People like John are few and far between in this life. He was truly a gentle and kind man to everyone who knew him no matter where they crossed his path. My heart grieves for you and your family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sue Chichester Relation to Deceased: friend Margaret and family, The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Stephanie and Brian Ritchie Relation to Deceased: Friends and den parents We have known John since Keanu and our son Chase, were in the first grade together and the relationship continued on to Cub Scouts. We will always remember him as a kindhearted and giving person. Our hearts go out to the family and may you find comfort in your memories. He will be greatly missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Stacey Richart-Jakovenko Rest in peace dear friend, God bless
sherry clark Relation to Deceased: friend Madge and kids…I am so sorry for your loss. John was always smiling and always had something positive to say to anyone who was privledged to know him. He made a difference in the lives he touched. You are in the thoughts and prayers of so many. Please know that he will never be forgotten and always be remembered with love. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Sam Lamendola This is a nightmare, I have no words to say, may God give you the strength Margaret and someday we will all meet again. God Bless you John I am sure you are swinging on a STAR May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Rose Geande Relation to Deceased: friend Dear Margaret and family, John was one of the kindest, most beautiful, generous human beings I have ever known. I will miss him dearly and forever remember him with a big smile and warm feelings. My heart goes out to you all. Rose The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Richard and Donna McKain Relation to Deceased: High School Friend To the entire Fess Family hold tightly to all the wonderful memories you have of John. He was a wonderful guy in high school. Unfortunately we did not see much of him afterwards. However, after reading the description that provided a window to where he was in life, we can see that he grew into an even greater man who will be greatly missed. God bless you all, you have our deepest sympathies May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Rich Andressi Relation to Deceased: Friend/Co-Worker The video says it all about John. He loved his Family, Friends and Life, a true Gentleman at heart. May God give Margaret and the Fess Family the Strength at this most difficult time. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Raymond and Patricia Naassana We are so sad and sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Raymond and Patricia Naassana
Pete Andreasen Relation to Deceased: High School classmate I remember John as an awesome guy who cared for people no matter what group they were in. He brought people together 30 years ago, and Im sure he was that way his whole life. I was looking forward to seeing him at the reunion. We will miss you John. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Peggy Beckler Relation to Deceased: Friend John, You were always such a nice person. Very friendly & always made people feel comfortable in your presence. That memory will remain forever in the hearts of all who loved you. You were a wonderful role model for your children & that gift will remain with them always. Rest in Peace. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Maureen Baxter Relation to Deceased: co-worker Margaret, My prayers go out to you and your family. John was a wonderful, kind, and thoughtful individual who will be missed by everyone who’s life he touched. Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Maria Mannix Relation to Deceased: Friend and co-worker John was one of the kindest person I knew and if you looked up the word gentlemen you would surely see his face. We work across the hall from John and there are only women in our office. Every day when I come to work our tubs of mail would be waiting for us because John was always kind enough to bring them up. He never had a bad word to say about anyone and there isn’t a bad word to be said about him. He will be truly missed by so many people. Margaret my heart goes out to you and your family at this very difficult time. Sincerely Maria Mannix The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Margaret M Matteo Relation to Deceased: Friend I cannot express my sympathy in words. He was one of the best….We will all miss his smiling face and the positive attitude he brought to the work place. Just know Margaret, that we are all thinking of you at this most difficult time. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Lisa Plinzke Relation to Deceased: Friend John and I were friends back in the 80’s and then I moved away and we lost touch. He was a very good friend to me and I think the last time I saw him was about 8 years ago maybe longer. I wish that I could have seen him once more. You don’t realize how precious life is until this happens. Miss you John even though it has been a few years. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Lee Ann (Marianetti) VanDenBerghe Relation to Deceased: class mate When I transferred to EV in first grade, my teacher moved me into a quad of desks with “the boys” because I talked too much. Little did she know, I was not the least bit shy around boys. She seated me with John, Mark Webster and Dan Priestley. They became some of my very first friends in my new school. No matter what group we belonged in during our school days, John remained very kind to me. I do recall running into him and Kim at Wegmans with their first child. He was so proud of his son. My heart goes out to ALL who knew and especially to those who loved John. I am certain he will be greatly missed.
Kim Le Relation to Deceased: Co-Worker My deepest sympathies to Margaret and family. John will be missed dearly. Keeping your family lifted in thoughts and prayers.
Kim Fess Today we will honor one of the best men I will ever know. We met as children We grew up together and learned together about life, loss, love, happiness, and heartbreak. We remained true friends and family throughout the years with a special bond which could not be broken. You are one person I knew I could always count on. You have a piece of my heart forever and always With Love, Kim
Karen and Mark Valle Relation to Deceased: Co-workers John was a kind man with a beautiful smile he will be deeply missed. Our prayers are with Margret and her family.
Karen and Mark Valle John was a kind man with beauitfy smile he will be deepy missed by all that knew him.Our prayers to Margret and her family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Joann Marianetti Relation to Deceased: friend Dear Patti & Tom Maier, & the Fess Family, We are very saddened and shocked to hear of John’s passing. Please know that you are in our prayers. With Our Deepest Sympathy, Joann & Bill The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Jill M. North Relation to Deceased: Dear Friend & Cub Scout Mom John was one of the nicest, most wonderful people I have ever met. Not only was he a teriffic leader, but he was so great with the kids. All the parents loved and respected him as well. he had the patience of a saint and a kind word for everyone he met. His family should be proud and hold their heads up high. I know we are all blessed and honored to have him touch our lives! The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Janice Tripi Relation to Deceased: den parent My son has NEVER had a den leader like John Fess…he helped my son like a friend and father figure. He made my son feel valued and he had a passion for the chidren that I’ve never seen before in a den leader. As a friend, John was a good listener, kind, patient and had a fabulous sense of humor. I can’t say enough good things about John. I am so shocked and upset for everyone who knew him. My love and heart to John’s wife and kids and family…..friends and someday John Fess, we will see you again. J
Iris M. Bertolone Relation to Deceased: friend John’s zest for life touched us all and his positive attitued and his contagious smile will live in our memories for a long time. May G_d’s love be with John and his family. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Hope Donovan -Weaver Relation to Deceased: Friend I am so sad to hear of John’s death – he was a wonerful man and such a good friend to all .May he rest in peace .God Bless his family and his children . The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Frank Billiski One of the Best. I’m so sorry and saddened for your loss. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Elizabeth Pedone Relation to Deceased: Freind Deepest Sympathy to Margaret and her children and all their family…Keep Your fondest memories of John alive and he will be with you always The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Donna Bassage Madge and Kids, We are so sorry for your loss. I cant find the words to express what i would like to say so I will just say John was a warm loving person and all of us were lucky that he passed through our lives. If there is anything we can do to help let us know, remember you are not alone when the days get tough, he will be there guiding you through the tough stuff! With Love, The Bassage Family The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Diane Galeazzo Relation to Deceased: Friend Margaret and family – My deepest sympathy. Words cannot express the saddness in my heart. Please know you all are in my prayers. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
colleen m willis Relation to Deceased: friend/coworker Margaret and family, I am so sorry of your loss of John. He was such a wonderful man, and will be so missed by us all … The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Chris Schottmiller My family and I were blessed to have known John and what a great man he was. My deepest sympathies to your family and may God hold you in his hands. Tom now has another great person to be with. John, we will never forget you!
Chris Dychton Margaret and family…I am so sorry for your loss. John was a wonderful person. He always took the time to speak with you in a caring and cheerful manner.He will be sorely missed by those who knew him.My thoughts and prayers to you all.
cheryl goggins Relation to Deceased: friend Madge there are no words to say how deeply sorry I am for you and the kids. Just know that you are loved sister by many. John will be greatly missed. Mr. Fess was one no one will forget. Know that many people have their hearts wrapped around you and the kids know. Love you sister The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Cathy Taylor-Schultz Margaret & family, I am so very sorry to learn of John’s passing. Please know that you are in my thoughts. I believe love lives on, and he will always be with you.
Carrie A Fess Relation to Deceased: cousin Much luv to Margret and kids & MY family. My heart goes out to all of you at this time of unexpected loss . John John you are truly missed . Rip lots of luv Carrie & George <3 The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Bonnie J Greene Relation to Deceased: co worker I am so saddened to hear about your loss. John was always so much fun to work with. So many laughs and always a smile! He will be fondly remembered in all the lives he touched! My prayers are with you all.
Bob Scherzi Relation to Deceased: Co-worker always a gentlemen…… The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Barbara & Pete VerWulst Relation to Deceased: Friend Margaret & Family, We can’t express how deeply sorry. John was the most generous man always smiling & postive attiude. Always find time to listen. We will miss him. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Annette Haun Hoelscher Dear Margaret and Family, On behalf of myself, Joe Haun, Robbie Haun and our families, we would like to send our DEEPEST condolences to you. You are all in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. With love.
Anne-Marie Sharkey Relation to Deceased: co-worker There is a saying that “Peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart. That is how I would describe John. My prayers are with his family, friends, and co-workers. He will be greatly missed.
Ann Marie Booth Relation to Deceased: Co-Worker USPS Margaret and Family, I am so sorry to hear about John’s passing. I will never forget the dreaded “Ice Storm” and John taking Melva Buckner and I to the Ground Round for a few cocktails an nd wings. Always smiling and always a true friend. He will be missed! Love yah Johnnie Anne As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Amanda Ward Relation to Deceased: Niece Helen Keller once said, “What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us.” Uncle John will be a part of me forever. I see him in Alex, Kyle and Keanu. I will miss him deeply, but I know he will always be with us. I’ll never forget you. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker