Honeoye: On December 19, 2025. He is predeceased by his parents, John & Elizabeth Spinder. He is survived by his children, Michael, Kristy (Dana) Bennett and Thomas (Nicole) Spinder; grandchildren, Ardell and Charley Spinder, Peyton, Blaine and Rylee Bennett; brothers, Mark (Linda), Stephen, Larry (Carol) and Christopher (Jean Valcarcel) Spinder; many nieces and nephews.

Tom’s life story will be shared during his visitation at the funeral home, 1411 Vintage Lane (Between 390 & Long Pond Rd.), Monday, December 22, 4-7 PM. His funeral mass will be celebrated, Tuesday, December 23, 9 AM at St. Pius Tenth Church, 3010 Chili Ave., Rochester, New York 14624. Interment to follow in Oakwood Cemetery, Penfield. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.