Tonna Alexander Relation to Deceased: Student and friend I had the honor of having Val as my College math teacher. I can honestly say that she had a way of teaching that made students like me ‘get it’. By the end of the class I also was able to call her my friend. She truly was an amazing person who loved life, loved teaching and loved her family. To the Palermo family, I am so truly sorry for your loss. I don’t think that any of us will ever understand why someone as beautiful, talented had to leave this earth. Just know that she truly loved you all very much. I remember when she told us that she was taking time off so that she could take you to Vegas. She was so excited about that. Remember the times you had with her and she will always llive on in your heart. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tara Blanchard Relation to Deceased: Cousin I’m not even sure where to start, what I remember best is your ability to do anything and succeed. You were smart, talented, sweet, athletic, funny and gorgeous (thanks to the Smith side of the family!). I’ve asked “why” a million times but I’m not sure we’ll ever have the answers. But I know this – you will be looking over your family and giving them the strength to get through the most difficult time of their lives. Peanut is a rambunctious as ever torturing the other three – which is quite hysterical. You have no idea how much you will be missed, I love you very much! I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Steve Rauch Relation to Deceased: Friend Val was one of the first friends my wife and I made when we moved to Arizona. Whenever we hung out, it was a fun time, lots of laughs. The memories I have of Val could fill pages and I only knew her for 3 years. I will especially remember ‘the dorm’ when we all lived across the hall from each other in the apartments, and how Peanut thought he lived in both apartments. Val taught me how to play poker and blackjack and win. I could go on and on with fun memories, but there is not enough room and it does not do justice to my friendship with Val. I guess I can sum up all the memories I have with, every memory I have with Val is a good memory. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sherry Clifford Relation to Deceased: friend You were loved by so many. I remember playing softball with you. You will be missed by so many. Thank you for always sharing your friendship with all. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Scott Wheaton Relation to Deceased: poker dealer, Colorado Belle When I first heard of the accident of a math teacher at Mohave High School I immediately thought of Val and hoped that it wasn’t her. She is remembered in our poker room at the Colorado Belle as a fun and serious poker player, Val was alway’s a delight to see when she came into the poker room and we all will miss her. God has recieved another beautiful Angel. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sara Defendorf Relation to Deceased: Went to HS together You were such an amazing person and you will truly be missed by so many people! The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Ricky Partney Relation to Deceased: Coworker Although I wasn’t able to get to know Val as well as I would have liked, I will definitely miss her constant smile, as well as her love for math and sports. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Rachael HIbbard Relation to Deceased: Friend I don’t even know where to begin…. Val was an amazing person… We had so many great memories together on and off the soccer field. She was someone that I was always able to look up to… a great soccer player, leader, and most importantly, a friend. She always had a smile on her face and made everyones day a little brighter. The one thing that I will never forget about Val is her giggle… that will never fade away. She has touched so many lives and will forever be missed. Love you! As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Philip v palermo Relation to Deceased: father Val is my daughter,friend, poker advisor and just the most beautiful young woman inside and out.I know your laughing at me right now because I had to ask your brother how to spell beautiful.I remember the day you were born because it took 2 days,but honey you were sure worth the wait. I used to prop you up in your nip nap when you were an infant and watch Yankee games with you. We signed you up for little league baseball and the coach was upset because he had to take a girl,but you didn’t take long to show him you were the best player on the team. Any thing you did,you did it great. Travel soccer,softball,recently golf. From all the cards and letters were getting from your students it didn’t take them long to know how great you are.I could sit here for hours with all the wonderful memories I have of you.I can’t begin to tell you how broken I am without you,but you will be in my heart forever. I love you and miss you. Dad The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Philip Palermo Relation to Deceased: Father How about a kid wanting to go to concerts with her dad? We always had a great time at these concerts laughing and just people watching.I remember when she asked me if I would take her and her girl friends to Garth Brooks and I said Garth What? But when I got there it was the best concert I was ever at.There were many more after that. I just want to let the world know how very proud I always am of you.Your mother and I cried when we left you in Arizona for your new Job,But within weeks you had new friends and a mission to teach your new students.I don’t understand why you where taken away from us so soon,but I can only hope that we will be together again someday.Love ya too much to explain Dad again Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Philip Palermo Relation to Deceased: Brother If words could express what I was feeling right now, I’d scream them out so the world could hear. Val, this has crushed my spirit and broken my heart. I feel like I am trying to put together a puzzle without having all the pieces. I have been trying to put together what I want to say for your ceremony, but so far I can’t get anything down that makes any sense. None of this makes any sense to me Val. We have been going through letters from your students and gosh how they adored you. Everyone adored you. Val, I need you to tell me what to do here because I am just not really coming to terms with any of this. You were never bossy, never the type of oldest sibling to pull rank, but damn it I need you to do that now. I need your help to stay strong for everyone. I just want so badly for one last chance to give you a hug, to tell you I love you. I know you’ll be watching over us just like I hope you know not a single day will go by that we won’t be thinking about you. I love you and miss you more than I can bear.
Melissa Ballard (Wark) I am so sorry to hear the news of Val’s passing. Val was such a great person and always had a smile on her face. We had some great times on the soccer field. She truly will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with Val’s family.
Mauro Felipe Relation to Deceased: Soccer Coach 1996-97 Val was a player I was proud to coach. She was chosen for ODP for her soccer ability, friendliness, leadership qualities and most of all she was an example of what a complete player should be. I was devastated by the news of Val’s passing. My sincere sympathies go out to her family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mary Beth Viavattine Relation to Deceased: neighbor To the Palermo family, my deepest sympathy for the death of Val. I remember all the times she and Phil spent time with Bobby, Sam and Anne Marie. I always felt Val was such a vivacious and happy child. We were lucky to have her in our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Fondly, Mary Beth Viavattine The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Marianne “Marbear” Palermo Relation to Deceased: Sister Valverlie Lynn, every day has been a challenge. I’m constantly asking why you? You were so bright, so intelligent and so gorgeous! I was so jealous of the way you could just throw your hair up and have people drooling over you in a minute. You taught me so much. I ask every day how am I going to do anything without you? You were my big sister but mostly my best friend! I used to get so excited when you’d come home for Summer, Christmas couldn’t wait for sissy time. I adore you I always have. The things you’ve accomplished the people you’ve touched. Your giggle the fun we always had no matter staying in or going shopping or watching those shows. Ugh, I don’t know if time will heal this wound Valerie, when you went so did apart of me. I’ve never felt a void so large. My heart is broken. I want you here with us, to have more fun. I want to learn from you and hear “marbear you’re wrong” when I’m upset about something dumb. I know you will always be with us, and I know it’s only see you later, but I don’t want to see you later, I want to see you now. You’ve taught me so much and you will live on through this family. I adore you sissy, I admire you, and most of all I love you and I can’t handle how much I miss you. “I will tell you everyting!” – Now & forever, you’ll still be my shoulder to lean on.
Lori Palermo Relation to Deceased: Aunt I don’t begin to understand why you had to leave us so soon. What I do know is you were a very special and loving person and that you touched so many hearts. If I had to pick only one thing about you that has always stood out in my mind, it would be your giggle! It has always brought a smile to my face. Even through this very difficult time, the memory of you
Lori Palermo I don’t begin to understand why you had to leave us so soon. What I do know is you were a very special and loving person who touched so many lives. If I had to pick only one thing about you that has always stood out in my mind…….it would be your GIGGLE!! It has always brought a smile to my face. Even through this extremely difficult time, remembering you giggling makes me smile. You will be in my heart and thoughts always! I love you and miss you very much! Love, Aunt Lori
Lori McNamara-Penny Relation to Deceased: Cousin There are no words that can describe the sadness that we feel. To see the people you love suffering and hurt is almost unbearable to the soul. If there was a way to take away the devestation and pain we all would do it in a heartbeat, but unfortunately we cannot. Things happen that make no sense and are all together senseless. And we are all left here to wonder why? Val was a beautiful young woman and she touched many people. She was so smart. She taught classes that I would not even begin to understand. She not only played sports but kicked butt at every sport she played. She accomplished so much in her time here and was respected by so many. I am so proud to have known her and so proud to call her my cousin. Valerie will always be remembered, always be loved, and always be close to our hearts. We hold you close within our hearts and there you shall remain. To walk with us throughout our lives until we meet again. So rest in peace Dear loved one and thanks for all you’ve done. We pray that God has given you the crown you’ve truly won.
Liz Stutz I was deeply saddened when I heard the news. Val and the Palermos have been in my thoughts all week. I grew up playing soccer with Val and have wonderful memories from over the years. She was always the positive one on and off the field, smiling, laughing, and keeping us in check. I always thought she was mature beyond her years. She will be missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
LindaJoy H Brown Relation to Deceased: Mentor Teacher The loss of one of our own is devastating. I was Valerie’s Mentor Teacher when she first became part of the CRUHSD family and MHS staff. From the beginning, I was impressed with her grasp of subject knowledge and ability to teach and pass on her mathematical prowess. She had control of her classroom and therefore was able to spend more time actually teaching. Students and staff alike respected her abilities and her giving nature. The fact that her loss resounded throughout the community is witness to her willingness to step forward and assist those around her. As tiny as she was, Valerie shone brightly in our world and will be sorely missed. Look at the people you pass in the hallways of life and remember their importance in your world; coworker or relative…we are all family. LindaJoy Brown The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Linda McNamara Relation to Deceased: Aunt My heart is heavy and deepened with a sadness that I can’t describe. I guess it is not for us to ask why. As I try to make sense of all this, I’m smiling as I think. You filled our lives with laughter, giggles, funny faces & frowns when you saw how we played poker! You have blessed us with nothing short of sunshine and I will treasure all those moments forever. You will be missed and forever loved. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Kristina Levy (Taylor) To the Palermo family, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I played soccer with Val for many years and remember her smile, laugh, and her caring heart. She will be missed. My prayers are with you all. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Kevin Schultz Relation to Deceased: HIgh school friend To the Palermo family, I was very saddened by the news of Val’s passing. I am very sorry for your loss. Val was a truly genuine person who brightened the lives of everyone she met. She loved life and this was for obvious reasons, she was good at everything she did. She never hesitated to help someone in need. I’m sure this is what made her such a wonderful teacher. It is definitely what made her such a great friend. I know Val was a big fan of country music and one of her favorite songs in high school was Alison Krauss’s “When You Say Nothing at All.” I think this song fits Val so well. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless your family in this difficult time.
Ken & Rosemary Rivers Phil, Arlena & family,We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We met Val back in the soccer days playing with, and at times against our daughter Carol. We had great times going on soccer trips with Spirit league. Val was always so kind and fun to be with. You both were great and loving parents. Again we are so sorry. Ken and Rosemary Rivers
Katie Loomis Relation to Deceased: Friend I can still remember Val playing soccer with my sister Jenny (and me playing on the sidelines with Mari and Phil) when I was younger. I can also remember playing against her and I believe with her a few times as I got older in both travel and HS. She was a very friendly person, quiet, but aggressive! She had a wonderful family. She was definitely loved and looked up to by her siblings. Please know you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Hold close the memories. It may be too soon – but, we are so lucky to have an angel like her in Heaven to watch over us. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Julie Weber Relation to Deceased: mother of Tyler Pickard(student at MHS) I only met Val a few weeks ago at one of Tyler’s basketball games, but, I know my son Tyler loved her as a teacher and he misses her dearly, as I am sure the rest of her students do, I know Tyler will always remember her and how she influenced his life. Thank you for being such a good person,teacher and friend to Tyler! You will be greatly missed by him! As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Julie Rauch I just remembered a good one, Val. You were living in the house on the hill here in Bullhead and didn’t have a washing machine yet so you waited until one Saturday afternoon when all your clothes were dirty until trekking to the laundromat to wash them. I went along to keep you company and decided to take along some pillows to wash in the big machines. We crammed the truck and backseat of your car FULL of bags of laundry (man, you had a ton of clothes!). You took up an entire row of washers with all your stuff. All went well until one of my pillows basically exploded in the dryer. We stood there staring at the dryer full of pillow fluff trying to figure out the best way to clean it out. At one point we discussed having you climb in there to clean it out because you totally would have fit (and you said it could be fun to go for a ride in the dryer). We ended up grabbing a garbage can and pulling it over to the dryer and just cramming handfuls of fluff into it. By the time we were done it seemed like we had gotten pillow guts all over the place! The sweet attendant lady helped us sweep it all up and I learned a very important lesson that day: cheap pillows should just be thrown away, not washed – but pillow fluff is fun to play with. 🙂 I’m going to desperately miss having you around. I’ll miss hanging out with you and doing nothing in particular but just loving it. The weekend before you were taken from us we watched The Social Network at your place and I laughed so hard that I cried at that funny looking kid in the classroom scene. The rest of you didn’t seem to find the humor in the kid but laughed at me because I was so beside myself. I’ll miss those days. I’ll miss you. Thank you for being a most incredible friend. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Julie Notebaert Relation to Deceased: friend of her brother Phil All of us from Friday Nite Mixers are so saddened by your loss. We all wanted to let you know that we are thinking of your family. We didn’t know Val, but am sure she was an amazing person. We hope that you can find some comfort in the days and weeks ahead.
Julie (Melech) Werner Gone too soon. A great heart, an amazing person. I’ll always remember the good times… the soccer games, the sleepovers, the college outings. “…it’s alright to be little bitty. little hometown in a big old city…”
Jane Sloan Relation to Deceased: friend The first time I met Val was when I was taking a tour of MHS while looking for a job. She had on a Yankee’s jersey and was just so little and cute. I remember thinking; this math department is going to be fun. Val always knew when we needed a little relief from the job and called a “Math meeting”, as a matter of fact my last memory is sitting at one of those “Math meetings” just talking and laughing. That’s all I ever did with Val, was talk and laugh. I miss you my friend and I love you. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” Unknown
Irina K. Val, I don’t really understand why this had to happen. But I will always remember you as a fun-loving girl. Do you remember when I went with all of you guys to Orlando? That was so much fun, especially the Hawaii dinner. I have a picture of you and Mary dancing by the table – such good memories. But most of all, I just loved how easy you made it to be your friend. I am grateful to have known you.
Gina (Andrychuk) Sce Relation to Deceased: Friend I havent talked to Val in a long time, I think maybe briefly through facebook awhile back, but I have not forgotten over the years what a sweet caring person she was. She was probably one of the easiest people to get along with. I can still hear that distinct giggle that she had. I remember our most devoted fans at our softball games in middle/highschool (Phil & Mari). My heart goes out to her family and close friends. May her memories forever live in your hearts. She will be sadly missed. I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one, I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done. I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days. I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun. Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Dino Kasvikis Relation to Deceased: friend The world has lost a bright light in so many people’s lives. You were always in a great mood, willing to help others in need and just an amazing all around person. Your energy and fun-spirited nature will surely be missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Dee Magee Relation to Deceased: friend of mom Arlene and family while you are mourning the loss of your beautiful daughter.God must of needed a angel so dear. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Deanna Smith Relation to Deceased: Cousin Val there is nothing I have been able to do to stop from thinking of you. I feel so broken hearted and I don’t know what to do. I wish I had one more chance to give you a hug and say I love you. Whenever it was time for you to come back home I was always so excited and couldn’t wait to see you. Christmas was my favorite especially. I always wanted to be just like you and I have this feeling like I’m lost. There is no real words that can express the hole in my heart right now and how devastating this is. Your laugh continues to play over and over in my head and its keeping me going. I’m trying so hard to stay strong because you were a strong person. Valerie I love you, I didn’t say it enough but I love you. And I miss you more then any of these words can describe.
Danitza A Munoz Relation to Deceased: Student ‘Til today I don’t understand why you are gone. It makes me cry just the thought of not having you around school anymore. You were such a great teacher! Your smile was bright and contagious. The way you taught and explained math was a way your students actually learned. We all miss you very much at Mohave High School, the feeling of you not being there is hard. It had been rough, these pasts couple of weeks. i have always loved the Yankees but now i’ll love them twice as much for you! Thanks for tutoring me and teaching me Algebra II <3 Forever Missed BUT Never Forgotten.
Crystal Houck I remember you as an incredible athlete and an amazing person. Though it has been many years since high school, I remember you like it was yesterday.
Crystal (Zaborowski) Saltrelli Relation to Deceased: High School Friend It’s been many years since I’ve talked to Val, but what I remember most is how she put her heart and soul into everything she did. She touched so many lives. My condolences go out to her family friends. Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. ~Rossiter Worthington Raymond
Cheryl (Robinson)Fumarola and Melissa Maier Relation to Deceased: Neighbor To the entire Palermo family we are so sorry for your loss. Val was such a great person. I remember looking up to her when we were little and thought she was the coolest girl ever. I would watch my brother Tony and her play foot ball in your yard on brandy brook and I would always want to play but they never let me lol. We had alot of memories as little kids Melissa and I are in shock this happened to you Val, it’s been years since we have spoke but we have so many fun memories from our sleep overs, playing soccer, riding bikes with your brother Phil and sister MarBear. This is a tremondous loss to the world. God Bless your family and again we are so very sorry.
Chelsie Carter Relation to Deceased: Teacher Many of you kknew her as Val, I knew her as Ms. Palermo or simply Ms.P. I rmember everyday walking into her class, sixth hour, and she still had that big bright smile on her face. She would explain to us the troubles of teaching Freshman and some how she was still able to giggle, joke and smile about the things they would do. The way she taught, she made her students get it. She wouldnt settle for anything less than us succeeding in eveything we did. She was so devoted to her students she had three jobs that involved us. Thts mind blowig that after dealing a full 7-8 hour day with us she would still want to. And of coursee she would do it wearng that amazzingg smile of hers. The day she died, n sixth hour, we were talking about our boyfriends and how they lived far away and her response was ‘The hardest thing to do is say goodbye.’ than the bell rang and we all left. I never expected not to seee her the next day. It was a complete shock. If i could say anything on behalf of her students its that we miss her and truly did love her. I will always miss her messy bun, oversized XS sweaters, her smile and her giggle. I love you Ms.P and we all miss you dearly. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Charles and Mary Schultz Relation to Deceased: friend In ways big and small Val’s life changed the world, and blessed blessed the hearts of all she knew. Please find comfort in knowing how many people share your sadness. Sincerest sympathy from all of us, Chuck, Mary, Jeff, Matt, Kevin and Brian The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Carol Stiles Relation to Deceased: piano teacher Dear Mr.and Mrs. Palermo and Phillip, I don’t know if you remember me but I remember Valerie. I was so sorry and shocked to hear of her accident. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I wasn’t sure if you were at the same address so couldn’t send a card. Sincerely, Carol
Carmen Beiningen Relation to Deceased: Colleague I will always remember when you used to enter the building in the mornings with your little cap covering your beautiful blue eyes and your nice smile saying: “Good morning Carmen!” And then, it was the end of the day; everybody was tired and frustrated with the issues of the day, but not you… You used to leave the building with the same smile and the same kind words: “Good night Carmen” “Don’t work to hard” “Tomorrow is another day to face the challenges of teaching.” Dear Valerie, even though we did not have many things in common because of our difference in ages, I will miss you and your positive attitude toward teaching. My heart goes to your family and friends.
Cari Allardice To the entire Palermo family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember the many years of playing soccer with Val and she was an amazing teammate and friend. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Caitlin Weston Relation to Deceased: friend I will never forget Val and the warmth and kindness of her heart. Coming onto the Arcadia varsity soccer team as a young player, I was a little intimidated. Val was this older, amazing, 1st team all county player and captain but from day one she welcomed me and made me feel like I was a teammate. Even more importantly, she became my good friend off the field and truly showed me the meaning of a team being a “family.” For this I feel very lucky and extremely blessed. I have so many fond memories of her, all of them with her smiling and laughing. This is how I will remember her always. Rest in peace my friend. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Andrea Morden Relation to Deceased: friend I remember one day when a coworker brought Guitar Hero 3 to school and students challenged the two of us to play “Through the Fire and Flames” against each other. You rocked out on expert while I slopped it out on easy. You totally kicked my butt and I remember finishing the song and having you tell me how proud you were of me because I had played better then I had before. You always were like that. Letting others feel special and share in the glory. I just continue to say you will be missed more then you ever can know and thank you for sharing a part of your life with me. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Andrea Barberi I will always remember your laughing smile on the soccer field. You have touched so many lives in the little time you had. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Amanda (Ardieta) Gardner Relation to Deceased: Friend from high school I haven’t seen or talked to Val since high school, but I remember what a kind, funny, and talented person she was – a truly wonderful person. I am in shock since hearing of her accident, and my condolences go out to her family and close friends. Her life is a great loss to so many. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Alexander Albornoz Relation to Deceased: Student This message is intended for the parents and family of Miss Palermo: Hello this is Alexander Albornoz, i hope you received my letter… Miss Palermo and i shared a strong bond between teacher and student, this is really a hard time for me as i’m sure this is for you as well… i meant what i said she was like no other, and Miss Palermo and you the parents and family of Miss Palermo are in my prayers. I wish i could have seen Miss Palermo one more time to say farewell and i wish i could have flown out to attend her funeral, but she’s home now. p.s: the picture i have attached is a picture of me and of Miss Palermo at graduation, i wanted to show you how much she really meant to me and to everyone she taught whether it was at Mohave High School or Mohave Community College, and that she helped guide people onto the right path to graduation and inspired us to go farther in life to become successful. she had such a major impact on all of us… 1) when i put my public message when it said Relation to Deceased i accidentally put :Teacher/Friend if you could can you change it to Student that would be great,thank you. 2) on my letter i forgot to put my address: 2554 Sundown Circle, Bullhead City, Az, 86442 i’d figure you’d wanna know where it came from. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Alexander Albornoz Relation to Deceased: Student Miss Palermo was the best teacher anyone could have ever had and definitely one that i’ll always remember and never forget,she was like no other, truly an inspirational person and excellent example of what a teacher should be. i’m still trying to cope with this as much as i can, but it’s so hard because she was really a kind genuine teacher and now i’m reading her obituary… “never say goodbye, because goodbye’s mean forever, but it’s not forever we will reunite and see each other one day Miss Palermo” 🙂 i’ll keep smiling and keep my head up just for you… I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Additional Tribute Link: http://youtu.be/Ie8wTE5z_qo
Tonna Alexander Relation to Deceased: Student and friend I had the honor of having Val as my College math teacher. I can honestly say that she had a way of teaching that made students like me ‘get it’. By the end of the class I also was able to call her my friend. She truly was an amazing person who loved life, loved teaching and loved her family. To the Palermo family, I am so truly sorry for your loss. I don’t think that any of us will ever understand why someone as beautiful, talented had to leave this earth. Just know that she truly loved you all very much. I remember when she told us that she was taking time off so that she could take you to Vegas. She was so excited about that. Remember the times you had with her and she will always llive on in your heart. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Tara Blanchard Relation to Deceased: Cousin I’m not even sure where to start, what I remember best is your ability to do anything and succeed. You were smart, talented, sweet, athletic, funny and gorgeous (thanks to the Smith side of the family!). I’ve asked “why” a million times but I’m not sure we’ll ever have the answers. But I know this – you will be looking over your family and giving them the strength to get through the most difficult time of their lives. Peanut is a rambunctious as ever torturing the other three – which is quite hysterical. You have no idea how much you will be missed, I love you very much! I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Steve Rauch Relation to Deceased: Friend Val was one of the first friends my wife and I made when we moved to Arizona. Whenever we hung out, it was a fun time, lots of laughs. The memories I have of Val could fill pages and I only knew her for 3 years. I will especially remember ‘the dorm’ when we all lived across the hall from each other in the apartments, and how Peanut thought he lived in both apartments. Val taught me how to play poker and blackjack and win. I could go on and on with fun memories, but there is not enough room and it does not do justice to my friendship with Val. I guess I can sum up all the memories I have with, every memory I have with Val is a good memory. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sherry Clifford Relation to Deceased: friend You were loved by so many. I remember playing softball with you. You will be missed by so many. Thank you for always sharing your friendship with all. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Scott Wheaton Relation to Deceased: poker dealer, Colorado Belle When I first heard of the accident of a math teacher at Mohave High School I immediately thought of Val and hoped that it wasn’t her. She is remembered in our poker room at the Colorado Belle as a fun and serious poker player, Val was alway’s a delight to see when she came into the poker room and we all will miss her. God has recieved another beautiful Angel. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Sara Defendorf Relation to Deceased: Went to HS together You were such an amazing person and you will truly be missed by so many people! The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Ricky Partney Relation to Deceased: Coworker Although I wasn’t able to get to know Val as well as I would have liked, I will definitely miss her constant smile, as well as her love for math and sports. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Rachael HIbbard Relation to Deceased: Friend I don’t even know where to begin…. Val was an amazing person… We had so many great memories together on and off the soccer field. She was someone that I was always able to look up to… a great soccer player, leader, and most importantly, a friend. She always had a smile on her face and made everyones day a little brighter. The one thing that I will never forget about Val is her giggle… that will never fade away. She has touched so many lives and will forever be missed. Love you! As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Philip v palermo Relation to Deceased: father Val is my daughter,friend, poker advisor and just the most beautiful young woman inside and out.I know your laughing at me right now because I had to ask your brother how to spell beautiful.I remember the day you were born because it took 2 days,but honey you were sure worth the wait. I used to prop you up in your nip nap when you were an infant and watch Yankee games with you. We signed you up for little league baseball and the coach was upset because he had to take a girl,but you didn’t take long to show him you were the best player on the team. Any thing you did,you did it great. Travel soccer,softball,recently golf. From all the cards and letters were getting from your students it didn’t take them long to know how great you are.I could sit here for hours with all the wonderful memories I have of you.I can’t begin to tell you how broken I am without you,but you will be in my heart forever. I love you and miss you. Dad The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Philip Palermo Relation to Deceased: Father How about a kid wanting to go to concerts with her dad? We always had a great time at these concerts laughing and just people watching.I remember when she asked me if I would take her and her girl friends to Garth Brooks and I said Garth What? But when I got there it was the best concert I was ever at.There were many more after that. I just want to let the world know how very proud I always am of you.Your mother and I cried when we left you in Arizona for your new Job,But within weeks you had new friends and a mission to teach your new students.I don’t understand why you where taken away from us so soon,but I can only hope that we will be together again someday.Love ya too much to explain Dad again Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart, far as long as there is memory, they’ll live on in the heart.
Philip Palermo Relation to Deceased: Brother If words could express what I was feeling right now, I’d scream them out so the world could hear. Val, this has crushed my spirit and broken my heart. I feel like I am trying to put together a puzzle without having all the pieces. I have been trying to put together what I want to say for your ceremony, but so far I can’t get anything down that makes any sense. None of this makes any sense to me Val. We have been going through letters from your students and gosh how they adored you. Everyone adored you. Val, I need you to tell me what to do here because I am just not really coming to terms with any of this. You were never bossy, never the type of oldest sibling to pull rank, but damn it I need you to do that now. I need your help to stay strong for everyone. I just want so badly for one last chance to give you a hug, to tell you I love you. I know you’ll be watching over us just like I hope you know not a single day will go by that we won’t be thinking about you. I love you and miss you more than I can bear.
Melissa Ballard (Wark) I am so sorry to hear the news of Val’s passing. Val was such a great person and always had a smile on her face. We had some great times on the soccer field. She truly will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with Val’s family.
Mauro Felipe Relation to Deceased: Soccer Coach 1996-97 Val was a player I was proud to coach. She was chosen for ODP for her soccer ability, friendliness, leadership qualities and most of all she was an example of what a complete player should be. I was devastated by the news of Val’s passing. My sincere sympathies go out to her family. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Mary Beth Viavattine Relation to Deceased: neighbor To the Palermo family, my deepest sympathy for the death of Val. I remember all the times she and Phil spent time with Bobby, Sam and Anne Marie. I always felt Val was such a vivacious and happy child. We were lucky to have her in our lives. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you. Fondly, Mary Beth Viavattine The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Marianne “Marbear” Palermo Relation to Deceased: Sister Valverlie Lynn, every day has been a challenge. I’m constantly asking why you? You were so bright, so intelligent and so gorgeous! I was so jealous of the way you could just throw your hair up and have people drooling over you in a minute. You taught me so much. I ask every day how am I going to do anything without you? You were my big sister but mostly my best friend! I used to get so excited when you’d come home for Summer, Christmas couldn’t wait for sissy time. I adore you I always have. The things you’ve accomplished the people you’ve touched. Your giggle the fun we always had no matter staying in or going shopping or watching those shows. Ugh, I don’t know if time will heal this wound Valerie, when you went so did apart of me. I’ve never felt a void so large. My heart is broken. I want you here with us, to have more fun. I want to learn from you and hear “marbear you’re wrong” when I’m upset about something dumb. I know you will always be with us, and I know it’s only see you later, but I don’t want to see you later, I want to see you now. You’ve taught me so much and you will live on through this family. I adore you sissy, I admire you, and most of all I love you and I can’t handle how much I miss you. “I will tell you everyting!” – Now & forever, you’ll still be my shoulder to lean on.
Lori Palermo Relation to Deceased: Aunt I don’t begin to understand why you had to leave us so soon. What I do know is you were a very special and loving person and that you touched so many hearts. If I had to pick only one thing about you that has always stood out in my mind, it would be your giggle! It has always brought a smile to my face. Even through this very difficult time, the memory of you
Lori Palermo I don’t begin to understand why you had to leave us so soon. What I do know is you were a very special and loving person who touched so many lives. If I had to pick only one thing about you that has always stood out in my mind…….it would be your GIGGLE!! It has always brought a smile to my face. Even through this extremely difficult time, remembering you giggling makes me smile. You will be in my heart and thoughts always! I love you and miss you very much! Love, Aunt Lori
Lori McNamara-Penny Relation to Deceased: Cousin There are no words that can describe the sadness that we feel. To see the people you love suffering and hurt is almost unbearable to the soul. If there was a way to take away the devestation and pain we all would do it in a heartbeat, but unfortunately we cannot. Things happen that make no sense and are all together senseless. And we are all left here to wonder why? Val was a beautiful young woman and she touched many people. She was so smart. She taught classes that I would not even begin to understand. She not only played sports but kicked butt at every sport she played. She accomplished so much in her time here and was respected by so many. I am so proud to have known her and so proud to call her my cousin. Valerie will always be remembered, always be loved, and always be close to our hearts. We hold you close within our hearts and there you shall remain. To walk with us throughout our lives until we meet again. So rest in peace Dear loved one and thanks for all you’ve done. We pray that God has given you the crown you’ve truly won.
Liz Stutz I was deeply saddened when I heard the news. Val and the Palermos have been in my thoughts all week. I grew up playing soccer with Val and have wonderful memories from over the years. She was always the positive one on and off the field, smiling, laughing, and keeping us in check. I always thought she was mature beyond her years. She will be missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
LindaJoy H Brown Relation to Deceased: Mentor Teacher The loss of one of our own is devastating. I was Valerie’s Mentor Teacher when she first became part of the CRUHSD family and MHS staff. From the beginning, I was impressed with her grasp of subject knowledge and ability to teach and pass on her mathematical prowess. She had control of her classroom and therefore was able to spend more time actually teaching. Students and staff alike respected her abilities and her giving nature. The fact that her loss resounded throughout the community is witness to her willingness to step forward and assist those around her. As tiny as she was, Valerie shone brightly in our world and will be sorely missed. Look at the people you pass in the hallways of life and remember their importance in your world; coworker or relative…we are all family. LindaJoy Brown The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Linda McNamara Relation to Deceased: Aunt My heart is heavy and deepened with a sadness that I can’t describe. I guess it is not for us to ask why. As I try to make sense of all this, I’m smiling as I think. You filled our lives with laughter, giggles, funny faces & frowns when you saw how we played poker! You have blessed us with nothing short of sunshine and I will treasure all those moments forever. You will be missed and forever loved. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Kristina Levy (Taylor) To the Palermo family, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I played soccer with Val for many years and remember her smile, laugh, and her caring heart. She will be missed. My prayers are with you all. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Kevin Schultz Relation to Deceased: HIgh school friend To the Palermo family, I was very saddened by the news of Val’s passing. I am very sorry for your loss. Val was a truly genuine person who brightened the lives of everyone she met. She loved life and this was for obvious reasons, she was good at everything she did. She never hesitated to help someone in need. I’m sure this is what made her such a wonderful teacher. It is definitely what made her such a great friend. I know Val was a big fan of country music and one of her favorite songs in high school was Alison Krauss’s “When You Say Nothing at All.” I think this song fits Val so well. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless your family in this difficult time.
Ken & Rosemary Rivers Phil, Arlena & family,We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We met Val back in the soccer days playing with, and at times against our daughter Carol. We had great times going on soccer trips with Spirit league. Val was always so kind and fun to be with. You both were great and loving parents. Again we are so sorry. Ken and Rosemary Rivers
Katie Loomis Relation to Deceased: Friend I can still remember Val playing soccer with my sister Jenny (and me playing on the sidelines with Mari and Phil) when I was younger. I can also remember playing against her and I believe with her a few times as I got older in both travel and HS. She was a very friendly person, quiet, but aggressive! She had a wonderful family. She was definitely loved and looked up to by her siblings. Please know you are in all of our thoughts and prayers. Hold close the memories. It may be too soon – but, we are so lucky to have an angel like her in Heaven to watch over us. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Karen Malinowski We are so very sorry for your loss. My family has all of the Palermo family in our thoughts and prayers.
Julie Weber Relation to Deceased: mother of Tyler Pickard(student at MHS) I only met Val a few weeks ago at one of Tyler’s basketball games, but, I know my son Tyler loved her as a teacher and he misses her dearly, as I am sure the rest of her students do, I know Tyler will always remember her and how she influenced his life. Thank you for being such a good person,teacher and friend to Tyler! You will be greatly missed by him! As we look back over time We find ourselves wondering ….. Did we remember to thank you enough For all you have done for us? For all the times you were by our sides To help and support us ….. To celebrate our successes To understand our problems And accept our defeats? Or for teaching us by your example, The value of hard work, good judgement, Courage and integrity? We wonder if we ever thanked you For the sacrifices you made. To let us have the very best? And for the simple things Like laughter, smiles and times we shared? If we have forgotten to show our Gratitude enough for all the things you did, We’re thanking you now. And we are hoping you knew all along, How much you meant to us.
Julie Rauch I just remembered a good one, Val. You were living in the house on the hill here in Bullhead and didn’t have a washing machine yet so you waited until one Saturday afternoon when all your clothes were dirty until trekking to the laundromat to wash them. I went along to keep you company and decided to take along some pillows to wash in the big machines. We crammed the truck and backseat of your car FULL of bags of laundry (man, you had a ton of clothes!). You took up an entire row of washers with all your stuff. All went well until one of my pillows basically exploded in the dryer. We stood there staring at the dryer full of pillow fluff trying to figure out the best way to clean it out. At one point we discussed having you climb in there to clean it out because you totally would have fit (and you said it could be fun to go for a ride in the dryer). We ended up grabbing a garbage can and pulling it over to the dryer and just cramming handfuls of fluff into it. By the time we were done it seemed like we had gotten pillow guts all over the place! The sweet attendant lady helped us sweep it all up and I learned a very important lesson that day: cheap pillows should just be thrown away, not washed – but pillow fluff is fun to play with. 🙂 I’m going to desperately miss having you around. I’ll miss hanging out with you and doing nothing in particular but just loving it. The weekend before you were taken from us we watched The Social Network at your place and I laughed so hard that I cried at that funny looking kid in the classroom scene. The rest of you didn’t seem to find the humor in the kid but laughed at me because I was so beside myself. I’ll miss those days. I’ll miss you. Thank you for being a most incredible friend. I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker
Julie Notebaert Relation to Deceased: friend of her brother Phil All of us from Friday Nite Mixers are so saddened by your loss. We all wanted to let you know that we are thinking of your family. We didn’t know Val, but am sure she was an amazing person. We hope that you can find some comfort in the days and weeks ahead.
Julie (Melech) Werner Gone too soon. A great heart, an amazing person. I’ll always remember the good times… the soccer games, the sleepovers, the college outings. “…it’s alright to be little bitty. little hometown in a big old city…”
Jane Sloan Relation to Deceased: friend The first time I met Val was when I was taking a tour of MHS while looking for a job. She had on a Yankee’s jersey and was just so little and cute. I remember thinking; this math department is going to be fun. Val always knew when we needed a little relief from the job and called a “Math meeting”, as a matter of fact my last memory is sitting at one of those “Math meetings” just talking and laughing. That’s all I ever did with Val, was talk and laugh. I miss you my friend and I love you. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.” Unknown
Jane & Vince Cenzi Words are totally inadequate. Our hearts hurt for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Irina K. Val, I don’t really understand why this had to happen. But I will always remember you as a fun-loving girl. Do you remember when I went with all of you guys to Orlando? That was so much fun, especially the Hawaii dinner. I have a picture of you and Mary dancing by the table – such good memories. But most of all, I just loved how easy you made it to be your friend. I am grateful to have known you.
Gina (Andrychuk) Sce Relation to Deceased: Friend I havent talked to Val in a long time, I think maybe briefly through facebook awhile back, but I have not forgotten over the years what a sweet caring person she was. She was probably one of the easiest people to get along with. I can still hear that distinct giggle that she had. I remember our most devoted fans at our softball games in middle/highschool (Phil & Mari). My heart goes out to her family and close friends. May her memories forever live in your hearts. She will be sadly missed. I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one, I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done. I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days. I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun. Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
Dino Kasvikis Relation to Deceased: friend The world has lost a bright light in so many people’s lives. You were always in a great mood, willing to help others in need and just an amazing all around person. Your energy and fun-spirited nature will surely be missed. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Dee Magee Relation to Deceased: friend of mom Arlene and family while you are mourning the loss of your beautiful daughter.God must of needed a angel so dear. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Deanna Smith Relation to Deceased: Cousin Val there is nothing I have been able to do to stop from thinking of you. I feel so broken hearted and I don’t know what to do. I wish I had one more chance to give you a hug and say I love you. Whenever it was time for you to come back home I was always so excited and couldn’t wait to see you. Christmas was my favorite especially. I always wanted to be just like you and I have this feeling like I’m lost. There is no real words that can express the hole in my heart right now and how devastating this is. Your laugh continues to play over and over in my head and its keeping me going. I’m trying so hard to stay strong because you were a strong person. Valerie I love you, I didn’t say it enough but I love you. And I miss you more then any of these words can describe.
Danitza A Munoz Relation to Deceased: Student ‘Til today I don’t understand why you are gone. It makes me cry just the thought of not having you around school anymore. You were such a great teacher! Your smile was bright and contagious. The way you taught and explained math was a way your students actually learned. We all miss you very much at Mohave High School, the feeling of you not being there is hard. It had been rough, these pasts couple of weeks. i have always loved the Yankees but now i’ll love them twice as much for you! Thanks for tutoring me and teaching me Algebra II <3 Forever Missed BUT Never Forgotten.
Crystal Houck I remember you as an incredible athlete and an amazing person. Though it has been many years since high school, I remember you like it was yesterday.
Crystal (Zaborowski) Saltrelli Relation to Deceased: High School Friend It’s been many years since I’ve talked to Val, but what I remember most is how she put her heart and soul into everything she did. She touched so many lives. My condolences go out to her family friends. Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. ~Rossiter Worthington Raymond
Cheryl (Robinson)Fumarola and Melissa Maier Relation to Deceased: Neighbor To the entire Palermo family we are so sorry for your loss. Val was such a great person. I remember looking up to her when we were little and thought she was the coolest girl ever. I would watch my brother Tony and her play foot ball in your yard on brandy brook and I would always want to play but they never let me lol. We had alot of memories as little kids Melissa and I are in shock this happened to you Val, it’s been years since we have spoke but we have so many fun memories from our sleep overs, playing soccer, riding bikes with your brother Phil and sister MarBear. This is a tremondous loss to the world. God Bless your family and again we are so very sorry.
Chelsie Carter Relation to Deceased: Teacher Many of you kknew her as Val, I knew her as Ms. Palermo or simply Ms.P. I rmember everyday walking into her class, sixth hour, and she still had that big bright smile on her face. She would explain to us the troubles of teaching Freshman and some how she was still able to giggle, joke and smile about the things they would do. The way she taught, she made her students get it. She wouldnt settle for anything less than us succeeding in eveything we did. She was so devoted to her students she had three jobs that involved us. Thts mind blowig that after dealing a full 7-8 hour day with us she would still want to. And of coursee she would do it wearng that amazzingg smile of hers. The day she died, n sixth hour, we were talking about our boyfriends and how they lived far away and her response was ‘The hardest thing to do is say goodbye.’ than the bell rang and we all left. I never expected not to seee her the next day. It was a complete shock. If i could say anything on behalf of her students its that we miss her and truly did love her. I will always miss her messy bun, oversized XS sweaters, her smile and her giggle. I love you Ms.P and we all miss you dearly. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Charles and Mary Schultz Relation to Deceased: friend In ways big and small Val’s life changed the world, and blessed blessed the hearts of all she knew. Please find comfort in knowing how many people share your sadness. Sincerest sympathy from all of us, Chuck, Mary, Jeff, Matt, Kevin and Brian The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Carol Stiles Relation to Deceased: piano teacher Dear Mr.and Mrs. Palermo and Phillip, I don’t know if you remember me but I remember Valerie. I was so sorry and shocked to hear of her accident. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I wasn’t sure if you were at the same address so couldn’t send a card. Sincerely, Carol
Carmen Beiningen Relation to Deceased: Colleague I will always remember when you used to enter the building in the mornings with your little cap covering your beautiful blue eyes and your nice smile saying: “Good morning Carmen!” And then, it was the end of the day; everybody was tired and frustrated with the issues of the day, but not you… You used to leave the building with the same smile and the same kind words: “Good night Carmen” “Don’t work to hard” “Tomorrow is another day to face the challenges of teaching.” Dear Valerie, even though we did not have many things in common because of our difference in ages, I will miss you and your positive attitude toward teaching. My heart goes to your family and friends.
Cari Allardice To the entire Palermo family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember the many years of playing soccer with Val and she was an amazing teammate and friend. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Caitlin Weston Relation to Deceased: friend I will never forget Val and the warmth and kindness of her heart. Coming onto the Arcadia varsity soccer team as a young player, I was a little intimidated. Val was this older, amazing, 1st team all county player and captain but from day one she welcomed me and made me feel like I was a teammate. Even more importantly, she became my good friend off the field and truly showed me the meaning of a team being a “family.” For this I feel very lucky and extremely blessed. I have so many fond memories of her, all of them with her smiling and laughing. This is how I will remember her always. Rest in peace my friend. The celebration of life, shared in the beginning, and again, in the end. Yet we forget to celebrate it, in every moment we live. Time, days, years, go on, but are we alive? Alive and do not know it, sleeping in the world and dead to the life we are to live. To celebrate all life, the sparrow who sang in the morning, and died in the night, why do we not celebrate its life? To know thyself is to know you are alive – to give, to love, to seek truth, beauty, and suffer pain. In life as it is meant to be, pain is forgotten, and strength is all that’s left to be gained in the moment by moment celebration of life. By Deborah Peabody
Andrea Morden Relation to Deceased: friend I remember one day when a coworker brought Guitar Hero 3 to school and students challenged the two of us to play “Through the Fire and Flames” against each other. You rocked out on expert while I slopped it out on easy. You totally kicked my butt and I remember finishing the song and having you tell me how proud you were of me because I had played better then I had before. You always were like that. Letting others feel special and share in the glory. I just continue to say you will be missed more then you ever can know and thank you for sharing a part of your life with me. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Andrea Barberi I will always remember your laughing smile on the soccer field. You have touched so many lives in the little time you had. The butterfly emerges from its silken shell- Reborn, it arises, no longer bound to earth. Free at last, the butterfly glides to heights unknown before. So do our loved ones find a beautiful release as, earthbound no more, they leave our sight and joyfully rise to a garden of matchless beauty, a place of light and peace. -Evelyn Phillips
Amanda (Ardieta) Gardner Relation to Deceased: Friend from high school I haven’t seen or talked to Val since high school, but I remember what a kind, funny, and talented person she was – a truly wonderful person. I am in shock since hearing of her accident, and my condolences go out to her family and close friends. Her life is a great loss to so many. May the road rise to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of His hand. An Old Irish Blessing
Alexander Albornoz Relation to Deceased: Student This message is intended for the parents and family of Miss Palermo: Hello this is Alexander Albornoz, i hope you received my letter… Miss Palermo and i shared a strong bond between teacher and student, this is really a hard time for me as i’m sure this is for you as well… i meant what i said she was like no other, and Miss Palermo and you the parents and family of Miss Palermo are in my prayers. I wish i could have seen Miss Palermo one more time to say farewell and i wish i could have flown out to attend her funeral, but she’s home now. p.s: the picture i have attached is a picture of me and of Miss Palermo at graduation, i wanted to show you how much she really meant to me and to everyone she taught whether it was at Mohave High School or Mohave Community College, and that she helped guide people onto the right path to graduation and inspired us to go farther in life to become successful. she had such a major impact on all of us… 1) when i put my public message when it said Relation to Deceased i accidentally put :Teacher/Friend if you could can you change it to Student that would be great,thank you. 2) on my letter i forgot to put my address: 2554 Sundown Circle, Bullhead City, Az, 86442 i’d figure you’d wanna know where it came from. Safely Home I am home in Heaven dear ones: Oh, so happy and so bright! There is perfect joy and beauty in this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over, every restless tossing passed I am now at peace forever, safely home in Heaven at last. Then you must not grieve so sorely, for I love you dearly still; try to look beyond earth shadows, Pray to trust our Father’s will There is work still waiting for you, so you must not idly stand: do it now, while life remaineth you shall rest in Jesus’ land When that work is all completed, He will gently call you Home; oh the rapture of that meeting, oh the joy to see you come!
Alexander Albornoz Relation to Deceased: Student Miss Palermo was the best teacher anyone could have ever had and definitely one that i’ll always remember and never forget,she was like no other, truly an inspirational person and excellent example of what a teacher should be. i’m still trying to cope with this as much as i can, but it’s so hard because she was really a kind genuine teacher and now i’m reading her obituary… “never say goodbye, because goodbye’s mean forever, but it’s not forever we will reunite and see each other one day Miss Palermo” 🙂 i’ll keep smiling and keep my head up just for you… I think no matter where you stray, That I shall go with you a way. Though you may wander sweeter lands, You will not forget my hands, Nor yet the way I held my head Nor the tremulous things I said. You will still see me, small and white And smiling, in the secret night, And feel my arms about you when The day comes fluttering back again. I think, no matter where you be, You’ll hold me in your memory And keep my image there without me, By telling later loves about me. Dorothy Parker