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Thomas P. Spinder

August 9, 1953 ~ December 19, 2025

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Honeoye, NY
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thomas spinder

Thomas P. Spinder

August 9, 1953 ~ December 19, 2025

Born in: Rochester, NY
Resided in: Honeoye, NY


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  1. May love, family and fond memories heal our broken hearts –
    Aunt Pat Bailey, Doug & Carla Spinder, Lindsay Spinder Ferrin, Greg & Jill Spinder

  2. I feel fortunate that I had the privilege to live life with Tom vicariously through his younger brother and my Best Friend Larry Spinder. Tom ALWAYS requested of Larry to invite me on camping trips and other family celebrations. Thank you Tom. You are sorely missed. R.I.P. Sir.

  3. Tom and I were best friends in middle school and high school. He was my BFF’s boyfriend. We talked for hours on the phone. He was a sweet person. Easy to talk to. Kristi and my daughter Jayme were in the Nutcracker together. He will be missed. God received another angel. Please pass my condolences to his family.

  4. My brother may no longer be beside me, but he will always be within me. His voice, his smile, and the way he made me feel are memories I will carry with me forever.
    Grief has a way of reminding us how much love existed. I will miss him in quiet moments and loud ones, in celebrations and silence.
    He will always be my brother. Always loved. Always remembered.